Life is not boring

[cindygerb]

Once again, I prove my self-destructive nature

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Transformation

[mba500]

Oh my god, I did something different but with the same result with someone who to this date I consider as my best friend

Re: Transformation

[cindygerb]

Wolfgang, I want to say how happy I am that you are in my life. Love you.

I will try to follow your advice. The fact that he cut the connection is enabling me to recover some. I have more control, if I wish, over forming the connection. When I am stable, we will see what happens. Right now we are both present at the club but not talking. Tonight I have a date with a transgendered MIT alumna there. If he's there, let him watch :)

Re: Transformation

[singingnettle]

Sometimes it really does work to just back off and let some time go by. Two of my dearest friends are ex-partners. In the instance that's most analogous to this, it took us several years of careful distance before we could put back together the friendship that originally attracted us together.

I'm not sure lust makes a stable glue if that's pretty much all there is (although it's not a bad rubber band), but if you're friends with someone, there's a decent chance that if you can let the inflamed feelings die down, whatever you originally liked about each other will draw you back together.

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[cindygerb]

We'll see. The lust is a result of the other feelings, not the cause. Right now he's angry because, among other reasons, he needs to go to others for his training and he wanted to do that with me.

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[mba500]

I love you too Cindy, you are a beautiful human being.

Re: Transformation

[cindygerb]

Things like that keep me going, Wolfgang, and right now I need it. Thank you.