Pet Peeve

Jul 26, 2011 15:01

Okay, I know I'm not alone here, but I hatehatehatehate when you (or anyone) loses weight, and then people always say how GREAT you look! I know that a lot of people feel like they're obligated to say that or something, but it drives me crazy. This is actually something that bugs a lot of the girls in my E.D. treatment group, too. Except for some of them it usually means they've *gained* weight. But it's just frustrating because when someone tells you "Oh my gosh, you look AMAZING" I guess it's supposed to be some kind of positive reinforcement or something, but really it just makes me think "Well how did I look before? Why do you feel the need to compliment my appearance now that I've lost weight? Was there something wrong with me before, then?"

Anyway, just an annoyance I have.
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