When you are invited into a persons home, does that mean that permission can be assumed to go through their belongings, their cupboards, their medicine cabinets
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1. Thank you, I was getting lonely. I realized that while I care what Andy thinks about me, he doesn't care about me at all, so even if his advice about having my life as a page to read in public is practical (he maintains that it invites trouble to do so, and I deserve what I get then), that I need the catharsis and this ephemeral form of self-validity.
2. Googling someone you meet is fine- you're right that's public domain. If he had done so and found my blog/LJ.. then fine.. it IS public and doesn't require a password or anything to view. But my photo album does. And seeing what I bought on Ebay is the exact same as going through my cabinets.
I agree that if he had some suspicion of my duplicity, that he would be within his rights to snoop about, but that requires a relationship, not a single meeting & 1 date.
I would kill him, but I think that I'm just not going to talk to him any more. He thinks that what he did was ok, and that normal people (not me, because I apparently blow things out of proportion) would accept his apology, because normal people would understand that going into someone's medicine cabinet (or whatever example) is normal human behaviour.
2. Googling someone you meet is fine- you're right that's public domain. If he had done so and found my blog/LJ.. then fine.. it IS public and doesn't require a password or anything to view. But my photo album does. And seeing what I bought on Ebay is the exact same as going through my cabinets.
I agree that if he had some suspicion of my duplicity, that he would be within his rights to snoop about, but that requires a relationship, not a single meeting & 1 date.
I would kill him, but I think that I'm just not going to talk to him any more. He thinks that what he did was ok, and that normal people (not me, because I apparently blow things out of proportion) would accept his apology, because normal people would understand that going into someone's medicine cabinet (or whatever example) is normal human behaviour.
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He has no right and no reason to go through any of your stuff. Kick him in the balls and shove him out the door. :)
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