PTSD Facebook post.
It is true that people will always talk. The real question is are they doing it to help you or hurt you. With me, well, it's usually to hurt me. I've just had to put another big post up on facebook, and I shall repeat it here:
Right, here we go again:
Once again it has come to my attention that 2 significant groups have started their usual hate campaigns against me. 10-18 years on and these looneys are STILL stalking me ( yes, for real ). 1 group is in Croydon, & the second group is part of what-was Samoth's Netgoths ( with ties to Southampton & the original girl-gang there ).
So... Let's squish those rumours:
1) I left Croydon because a girl-gang helped to protect 2 wifebeaters, seriously injuring me in the process. A CID Sgt lied on record to help them. I still have no details as to why said CID Sgt lied, but I can prove that he lied. The case is with CICA as I am too poor to sue directly.
2) I'm a Human Rights worker, with a heavy slant in Mental Health. Just because I say nice things to gay or trans people does not make me gay or trans-curious. It takes a special kinda stupid to fall for that one, so do take note. Which leads to 3...
3) I'm just a dull hetero who fears pregnancy. How that was warped into me being 'in-the-closet gay' or BLAH I do not know, but I suspect that the so-called experts ( they aren't ) made it up. I am not Trans-curious or gay. I do not watch porn ( I don;t even like it, as it rots your brain ). And no I am NOT afraid to 'come out'. I fear very little in reality. I am not you.
4) For 10 years now I have been stalked by these looneys. 10 years ( 1 lass is still stalking away 18 years on ). And their aim is to destroy everything I have, to force me to leave London, for entirely 'gangs & turf' reasons ( it's Croydon after all ). There is no kindness. They are lying if they say "it's for the best". Basically they leave me alone ( isolated if you use the medical language ), for as long as possible, to try & make me obey their agenda ( my understanding is that it is financial, because I can DJ & have seen so much ). As they continue to kick in who they want whenever they want ( myself included as I now know ).
5) They are relentless. There is no way to stop them & their obsession with me. But... If you refuse to listen to a word I say then you'll only have yourself to blame when it ends in tears ( your tears. I am VERY work-hardened these days ).
6) I am not dating at present because I have PTSD. PTSD caused by, once again, a group of violent women seriously harming me. The first group of violent women was in Southampton, and they used the Hell's Angels to get what they wanted. Up here there is no official gang, just the drunks & thugs of Croydon Heavy Metal, and this second group of violent women instead try to trick you by using gossip ( whilst checking over your wallet, be warned ).
7) I cannot stress enough how very VERY ill these obsessives are. And how much harm they can do if you let them in. Their entire agenda is utterly nuts, and VERY violent. It is simply gangs & turf, but bullying for a long period of time can seriously mess up your health. Which is why I prefer to live alone. When half my social life is a damn fight, because of their un-healthy obsession with me, I need the rest. I am an injured man after all.
8) When I do start dating again I'll be looking for a 30-summat lass minimum ( born female. I can tell. I'm sorry; but it's my love-life, not yours ), into advanced technology & beepy-chuggy noises. And Cats. Heavy on the cats. Until then expect to encounter a brick wall. It takes A LOT to get near me these days.
9) Just because I do Human Rights work doesn't make me gay. Seriously, sort it out.
10) Me getting married & having kids ( because I am 'at that age' ) solves nothing, contrary to what some will believe. If you marry the first bit of stuff that comes along then your pain will just continue, Many of these people are terrified of single men. I don't have a ticking clock inside me, but they might...
.
I still can't believe that I am having to put these up still. 10 years on ( 18 years with one of them. She's insane ). That's quite the obsession they have.
As you do *shrugs*.
Quite...
The idea is to keep me single forever, by destroying everything I have AND every chance I'll ever get at love. It is being carried out by a pack of Brexit-eers in Croydon ( many of whom are or were BNP types ). It links up with a couple of Bunny-boilers in Southampton. But...
The rest is you.
You are the ones who ignored ever word I said. You chose that. And in doing so, for 18 years in the end, you empowered his trouble.
You, not me. I am not you.
.
Aggressive women. Even when they are not throwing a punch they are nagging & harming you emotionally. And...
I now know why I drifted towards them. And this is important for me.
There are 2 factors, and the rest is me not being psychic:
Factor 1: I like strong women. I hate wishy-washy. Even when someone is nervous they can man up ( or woman up, as is the case with this ). So it's about what they do when the cards are down. Actions. And women of strength are great. Factor in the normal 'stuff in common' factor here. Dating is dating after all. You have to get along with them after the Horizontal Jiggy bit.
Factor 2: Mental Stability. This is the bit where me not being psychic let me down ( I know I know ).
Croydon has A LOT of strong women, but... If you look at the many MANY social agendas you will see, well, not much in the way of sanity. Sadly I did not know this until it was too late ( me not being psychic ).
So for X number of years I chanced my arm with strong women I had something in common with, expecting sanity. And for X number of years I encountered crazies ( many are self-medicators ).
It was said crazies that protected wifebeaters, empowered local crack-heads, lied to venue managers for entirely-low-level-gangland reasons, and... Indeed.
You just don't expect it to be that big. Anyway...
Now I know how compromised the crowd is I avoid the place. Job done.
But...
I work with crazies in my day job. People with genuine issues. And I try to be fair in my Social Life too. I allow for a lot of differences in people. But...
In my Love Life ( a VERY personal place after all ) I would simply like some reliability and intellect attached to a cute sane tush. Like most men do.
Crazies? Isn't that offensive? No, just no. You lose that right when you choose violence. Especially if you chose it for a proper-crazy reason. Us relatively-sane people have rights too, including the right to self-defence.
These crazies are the ones arguing that it is ok to hospitalise someone over the use of 1 or 2 innocent slang words. Does that sound sane or stable to you?
What can I say? It was never me. And it DID get that silly. And no, I still have not healed yet.
So no I am still not dating. I am just chilling out. I get waaay too nervous around the female of the species still, and until that changes I am just gonna stay snuggled up with Das Pussykatten.
You know, Das Pussykatten who aren't so insane as to destroy an entire chunk of your life simply because you used a harmless slang word...
They're your kids. And so many are going off the rails. We're talking major instabilities if they can be triggered into such high levels of cruelty based on so little. Proper crazy.
It's useful for work, but socially I'll pass thanks.
Right, here we go again:
Once again it has come to my attention that 2 significant groups have started their usual hate campaigns against me. 10-18 years on and these looneys are STILL stalking me ( yes, for real ). 1 group is in Croydon, & the second group is part of what-was Samoth's Netgoths ( with ties to Southampton & the original girl-gang there ).
So... Let's squish those rumours:
1) I left Croydon because a girl-gang helped to protect 2 wifebeaters, seriously injuring me in the process. A CID Sgt lied on record to help them. I still have no details as to why said CID Sgt lied, but I can prove that he lied. The case is with CICA as I am too poor to sue directly.
2) I'm a Human Rights worker, with a heavy slant in Mental Health. Just because I say nice things to gay or trans people does not make me gay or trans-curious. It takes a special kinda stupid to fall for that one, so do take note. Which leads to 3...
3) I'm just a dull hetero who fears pregnancy. How that was warped into me being 'in-the-closet gay' or BLAH I do not know, but I suspect that the so-called experts ( they aren't ) made it up. I am not Trans-curious or gay. I do not watch porn ( I don;t even like it, as it rots your brain ). And no I am NOT afraid to 'come out'. I fear very little in reality. I am not you.
4) For 10 years now I have been stalked by these looneys. 10 years ( 1 lass is still stalking away 18 years on ). And their aim is to destroy everything I have, to force me to leave London, for entirely 'gangs & turf' reasons ( it's Croydon after all ). There is no kindness. They are lying if they say "it's for the best". Basically they leave me alone ( isolated if you use the medical language ), for as long as possible, to try & make me obey their agenda ( my understanding is that it is financial, because I can DJ & have seen so much ). As they continue to kick in who they want whenever they want ( myself included as I now know ).
5) They are relentless. There is no way to stop them & their obsession with me. But... If you refuse to listen to a word I say then you'll only have yourself to blame when it ends in tears ( your tears. I am VERY work-hardened these days ).
6) I am not dating at present because I have PTSD. PTSD caused by, once again, a group of violent women seriously harming me. The first group of violent women was in Southampton, and they used the Hell's Angels to get what they wanted. Up here there is no official gang, just the drunks & thugs of Croydon Heavy Metal, and this second group of violent women instead try to trick you by using gossip ( whilst checking over your wallet, be warned ).
7) I cannot stress enough how very VERY ill these obsessives are. And how much harm they can do if you let them in. Their entire agenda is utterly nuts, and VERY violent. It is simply gangs & turf, but bullying for a long period of time can seriously mess up your health. Which is why I prefer to live alone. When half my social life is a damn fight, because of their un-healthy obsession with me, I need the rest. I am an injured man after all.
8) When I do start dating again I'll be looking for a 30-summat lass minimum ( born female. I can tell. I'm sorry; but it's my love-life, not yours ), into advanced technology & beepy-chuggy noises. And Cats. Heavy on the cats. Until then expect to encounter a brick wall. It takes A LOT to get near me these days.
9) Just because I do Human Rights work doesn't make me gay. Seriously, sort it out.
10) Me getting married & having kids ( because I am 'at that age' ) solves nothing, contrary to what some will believe. If you marry the first bit of stuff that comes along then your pain will just continue, Many of these people are terrified of single men. I don't have a ticking clock inside me, but they might...
.
I still can't believe that I am having to put these up still. 10 years on ( 18 years with one of them. She's insane ). That's quite the obsession they have.
As you do *shrugs*.
Quite...
The idea is to keep me single forever, by destroying everything I have AND every chance I'll ever get at love. It is being carried out by a pack of Brexit-eers in Croydon ( many of whom are or were BNP types ). It links up with a couple of Bunny-boilers in Southampton. But...
The rest is you.
You are the ones who ignored ever word I said. You chose that. And in doing so, for 18 years in the end, you empowered his trouble.
You, not me. I am not you.
.
Aggressive women. Even when they are not throwing a punch they are nagging & harming you emotionally. And...
I now know why I drifted towards them. And this is important for me.
There are 2 factors, and the rest is me not being psychic:
Factor 1: I like strong women. I hate wishy-washy. Even when someone is nervous they can man up ( or woman up, as is the case with this ). So it's about what they do when the cards are down. Actions. And women of strength are great. Factor in the normal 'stuff in common' factor here. Dating is dating after all. You have to get along with them after the Horizontal Jiggy bit.
Factor 2: Mental Stability. This is the bit where me not being psychic let me down ( I know I know ).
Croydon has A LOT of strong women, but... If you look at the many MANY social agendas you will see, well, not much in the way of sanity. Sadly I did not know this until it was too late ( me not being psychic ).
So for X number of years I chanced my arm with strong women I had something in common with, expecting sanity. And for X number of years I encountered crazies ( many are self-medicators ).
It was said crazies that protected wifebeaters, empowered local crack-heads, lied to venue managers for entirely-low-level-gangland reasons, and... Indeed.
You just don't expect it to be that big. Anyway...
Now I know how compromised the crowd is I avoid the place. Job done.
But...
I work with crazies in my day job. People with genuine issues. And I try to be fair in my Social Life too. I allow for a lot of differences in people. But...
In my Love Life ( a VERY personal place after all ) I would simply like some reliability and intellect attached to a cute sane tush. Like most men do.
Crazies? Isn't that offensive? No, just no. You lose that right when you choose violence. Especially if you chose it for a proper-crazy reason. Us relatively-sane people have rights too, including the right to self-defence.
These crazies are the ones arguing that it is ok to hospitalise someone over the use of 1 or 2 innocent slang words. Does that sound sane or stable to you?
What can I say? It was never me. And it DID get that silly. And no, I still have not healed yet.
So no I am still not dating. I am just chilling out. I get waaay too nervous around the female of the species still, and until that changes I am just gonna stay snuggled up with Das Pussykatten.
You know, Das Pussykatten who aren't so insane as to destroy an entire chunk of your life simply because you used a harmless slang word...
They're your kids. And so many are going off the rails. We're talking major instabilities if they can be triggered into such high levels of cruelty based on so little. Proper crazy.
It's useful for work, but socially I'll pass thanks.