Having Sex vs. Making Love
There's something special that happens when a couple goes from having sex to making love. Even after you've fallen in love with someone it doesn't mean you two make love when the need to please arrives.
When you have sex although it may be very intimant it's still not as good as making love. You may get off a million times and feel the *greatest* you've ever felt but that's all there really is to it. You fuck in a few different positions until u both decide you've had enough.
But when you make love it's slow and peaceful. You get to look into eachother's eyes and you can see it in the other person that they just feel so lucky to have you and be with you...there's no other place in the world they'd rather be than right there with you in that moment. You hold and caress eachother like you'll never see eachother again and suddenly every feeling and sensation you have is so intense because your longing for this person multiplies by thousands with every breath you take. It's almost too much and you think you might lose yourself and then your eyes meet again. Your noses and foreheads touch....and not a word is said....just simply looking into eachother's eyes just hoping that maybe you've beaten the odds and this really is true love....
It sounds just like a love scene from some romantic movie....but how do you think those scenes were written? Someone had to have made love in their lives and wanted to show it to the world...now of course we all don't look like the actors do and it isn't always a kiss in the rain. But the principals to it are pretty much the same. To have that feeling and comfort simply looking into eachother's eyes is something I feel very special for knowing. No one has looked me in the eyes that way or brushed the hair out of my face that way. I was held like I was a porcalin *sp* doll and his treasure from the seas.
I would rather have made love once in my life than get laid whenever and with whomever I please for the rest of my life.
A lot of you will probably say this is childish, or why would I write something like this but truth is....everyone wants to feel this way. Otherwise why do we date or even just fuck around with people and flirt? It's because deep down inside we hope that this romance scene will one day become part of our lives and catch us by surprise...but we hide what we really want with games and parties....but after the weekend and sunday night rolls around whether you work retail or in a restaurant or even in an office...you can't help but notice all the happy couples out on dates or at the park, the couples that sit next to eachother and can't tear their eyes away from eachother. The one's you see playing in the rain, or the one's that are still sitting in the movie theatre after all the credits are through...we all want that to be us I don't care who you are or what you have to say...NO ONE wants to lead a life of solitude and lay their heads down every night with no one to call their own. And even if they DO have someone to call their own then they're waiting for that moment where they can make love instead of just having sex. Sad part is a lot of people aren't ready to make that committment to a person. But I must say I'm with my baby because of moments like these...he really does love me....he's just a little behind in the dating world and what most girls expect but it's for moments like these where it makes it all worth while.
When you have sex although it may be very intimant it's still not as good as making love. You may get off a million times and feel the *greatest* you've ever felt but that's all there really is to it. You fuck in a few different positions until u both decide you've had enough.
But when you make love it's slow and peaceful. You get to look into eachother's eyes and you can see it in the other person that they just feel so lucky to have you and be with you...there's no other place in the world they'd rather be than right there with you in that moment. You hold and caress eachother like you'll never see eachother again and suddenly every feeling and sensation you have is so intense because your longing for this person multiplies by thousands with every breath you take. It's almost too much and you think you might lose yourself and then your eyes meet again. Your noses and foreheads touch....and not a word is said....just simply looking into eachother's eyes just hoping that maybe you've beaten the odds and this really is true love....
It sounds just like a love scene from some romantic movie....but how do you think those scenes were written? Someone had to have made love in their lives and wanted to show it to the world...now of course we all don't look like the actors do and it isn't always a kiss in the rain. But the principals to it are pretty much the same. To have that feeling and comfort simply looking into eachother's eyes is something I feel very special for knowing. No one has looked me in the eyes that way or brushed the hair out of my face that way. I was held like I was a porcalin *sp* doll and his treasure from the seas.
I would rather have made love once in my life than get laid whenever and with whomever I please for the rest of my life.
A lot of you will probably say this is childish, or why would I write something like this but truth is....everyone wants to feel this way. Otherwise why do we date or even just fuck around with people and flirt? It's because deep down inside we hope that this romance scene will one day become part of our lives and catch us by surprise...but we hide what we really want with games and parties....but after the weekend and sunday night rolls around whether you work retail or in a restaurant or even in an office...you can't help but notice all the happy couples out on dates or at the park, the couples that sit next to eachother and can't tear their eyes away from eachother. The one's you see playing in the rain, or the one's that are still sitting in the movie theatre after all the credits are through...we all want that to be us I don't care who you are or what you have to say...NO ONE wants to lead a life of solitude and lay their heads down every night with no one to call their own. And even if they DO have someone to call their own then they're waiting for that moment where they can make love instead of just having sex. Sad part is a lot of people aren't ready to make that committment to a person. But I must say I'm with my baby because of moments like these...he really does love me....he's just a little behind in the dating world and what most girls expect but it's for moments like these where it makes it all worth while.