Dance Clubs for the early 30s crowd

[snmnstrz21]

My friend and I might be interested in going dancing some weekend. We're in our early 30s (okay, she's in her early 30s...I'm 29) and both married. So we definitely want to avoid places where idiots are going to hit on us and irritate her into smacking someone.

I prefer techno/remixed top pop hits type of music. Maybe throw in some remixed 80s stuff for fun.

Anyone have any suggestions for clubs where the clientele won't make us want to murder someone?