Fourteen years ago today, my beloved anarchist_nomad and I fundamentally changed our young relationship. After nearly three years of exclusive monogamy, we transitioned to polyamory.

We had discussed the option multiple times before then, exploring what it would mean and how it might change us. Abstract agreement became reality when a marvelous opportunity arose ( Read more... )

 
Once upon a time there was a girl, who was younger than she ought to have been, but who figured she had survived to her twenties and had the right to make up for lost time.

There was also a boy, even younger than the girl and yet wiser in the ways of the world. He was a city mouse, which rather impressed the girl, being a country mouse herself. ( Read more... )

16 years.

38.4% of my life.

That's 5,844 days -- in case you happen to know someone who counts things like that. (Luckily, I do.)

I love you, Nomad. So very, very much.

Happy Anniversary to us!

3 years mono + 13 years poly = now.
Bravo. I love you, Nomad, and I love our tribes, our families, our friends and our children.

Many Loves
by Loren Davidson
I love the ocean ( Read more... )

Nomad and I do not celebrate Valentine's Day. Not only is it crassly commercialized, but we have a far more importance remembrance to record.

We have been together for 15.5 years.
Today marks the 11 year anniversary of our "Double D Day."

I love you, Nomad. "All the way up to 11."

Sometimes when you lose, you win....


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Nomad and I do not celebrate Valentine's Day because we have a far more important remembrance to record.

Our relationship is now 13.5 years old
and today marks the 9 year anniversary of our "Double D Day."

I love you, Nomad.

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Valentine's Day is the 12.5 year anniversary of my relationship with anarchist_nomad. As I said last year, "Wow. Times flies when your life is full." This has become more true than ever ( Read more... )

Happy Anniversary to anarchist_nomad and resourceressThey have been Secondaries for SEVEN years, longer than many of the primary relationships (or even marriages) that I have witnessed. They are also proof that LDRs can work and, amusingly enough, that one can pick up a meaningful relationship at a sci-fi convention (in this case Arisia 2000). :P ( Read more... )

We interrupt the current melodrama and moodiness, to make a worthwhile entry.

Forget this Valentine's Day stuff... we have to do things our own way. :) Today, Feb 12 2006 is our eleven and a half year anniversary of my relationship with anarchist_nomad. While half-year anniversaries are not usually worth noting, I think this one is relevant to note as we cruise ( Read more... )

Shame on me... I almost forgot to post this. I am very appreciative of anarchist_nomad's entry for today.


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