Hump Day Wednesday: The Art of Seduction
Seduction is a question of subtle strategy with one ultimate goal - to have sex with someone. The desire for sex is powerful; for some it can be as powerful as the need to eat and breathe. Seduction is the road we take to achieve sexual satisfaction.
For some, the thrill of seduction lies in the chase rather than the conquest. The excitement of wanting and pursuing someone can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. For others, the electric thrill comes from knowing that another person's sexual attentions are focused on them.
Those who thoroughly enjoy the chase are generally people with plenty of self-confidence and their confidence increases the likelihood of success.
Those who are less confident usually find seduction far more difficult. How can you convince a member of the opposite sex to fancy you if you see yourself as being unattractive?
But how do you know that he's interested? The best clues come from reading body language. Non-verbal signals are far better indicators of how a person feels about you than anything they may actually say verbally.
Those with an open posture are usually more available than those who stand with their arms crossed. The eyes are the biggest give-away when it comes to seduction.
Seduction Tip:
1. Flirt- Flirting is a means of keeping the other person interested and aroused as well as letting them know that they are unlikely to be rejected.
If you're still doing fine and the signals are good, it's time to move onto the final yielding. One of you must surrender. In all probability it will be you, because even if you initialized the seduction, he will probably have taken over the role of pursuer somewhere along the line.
The roles of 'hunter' and 'prey' have been decided through thousands of years of evolution, and usually fall naturally into place.
Surrender and enjoy!
About the AuthorSharon Jacobsen is a London born freelance writer living in South Cheshire, England with her partner, also a writer, and however many of her three children happen to be at home at any given time. To contact Sharon or to learn more about her work, please visit www.sharon-jacobsen.co.uk.
scribbles@sharon-jacobsen.co.ukhttp://www.sharon-jacobsen.co.uk
**This article has been shortened to what I believe is important.
For some, the thrill of seduction lies in the chase rather than the conquest. The excitement of wanting and pursuing someone can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. For others, the electric thrill comes from knowing that another person's sexual attentions are focused on them.
Those who thoroughly enjoy the chase are generally people with plenty of self-confidence and their confidence increases the likelihood of success.
Those who are less confident usually find seduction far more difficult. How can you convince a member of the opposite sex to fancy you if you see yourself as being unattractive?
But how do you know that he's interested? The best clues come from reading body language. Non-verbal signals are far better indicators of how a person feels about you than anything they may actually say verbally.
Those with an open posture are usually more available than those who stand with their arms crossed. The eyes are the biggest give-away when it comes to seduction.
Seduction Tip:
1. Flirt- Flirting is a means of keeping the other person interested and aroused as well as letting them know that they are unlikely to be rejected.
If you're still doing fine and the signals are good, it's time to move onto the final yielding. One of you must surrender. In all probability it will be you, because even if you initialized the seduction, he will probably have taken over the role of pursuer somewhere along the line.
The roles of 'hunter' and 'prey' have been decided through thousands of years of evolution, and usually fall naturally into place.
Surrender and enjoy!
About the AuthorSharon Jacobsen is a London born freelance writer living in South Cheshire, England with her partner, also a writer, and however many of her three children happen to be at home at any given time. To contact Sharon or to learn more about her work, please visit www.sharon-jacobsen.co.uk.
scribbles@sharon-jacobsen.co.ukhttp://www.sharon-jacobsen.co.uk
**This article has been shortened to what I believe is important.