Hey man, that's really rough. my heart goes out to you and Moondoggy. However I said this to her and now I'll say it to you. You should be extremely proud of yourself and the fact that you possess the courage it took for you to end a thing you love because you knew it was the right thing to do. (wordy, but it makes sense!) I think that speaks volumes on what a great relationship you guys have as people if nothing else. So be comforted in the fact that you were able to do something so hard, and know you will get through it with time. If I could send a bowl through the computer to you I would. ^_^
Also, I awkwardly have to thank you for not breaking Moondoggy's heart the way I always worried someone would...
And I hope you're still coming to the con! You KNOW you want to be a gunslinger!
I really can't tell you how much it means to have one of Moondoggy's friends say what you said. I really like you, and all of her friends, really, so to know that 1) you're not going to kill me for breaking up with Moondoggy and 2) I'm still welcomed among you really helps. I lost my fiance, I didn't want to lose a bunch of good friends while I was at it.
I'm glad it helped, you are a good person Josh and for me or the rest of the group to suddenly shun you because you're not dating our friend anymore would be a really hypocritical, cruel thing to do. (especially because the break up was mutual... duh? lol) You both need support right now. I feel like over the times you've visited MN with Moondoggy you've earned a spot among us past the 'friend's boyfriend' status. Which is eons more than I can say for some people who've been in that group for years. I hope you think so to. And we're all here to support both of you.
Aw, sad. I know three other people who had to end their engagements in the past year or two. Still, it's better now than later, when things get legal. *hugs*
And you better still be coming to CON. The fact that you can't be Mr. Moondoggy doesn't make you any less awesome, and I think I can speak for the whole gang when I say that we don't want to lose you either. *glomps*
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Thanks, Ali. I might take you up on that.
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However I said this to her and now I'll say it to you.
You should be extremely proud of yourself and the fact that you possess the courage it took for you to end a thing you love because you knew it was the right thing to do. (wordy, but it makes sense!)
I think that speaks volumes on what a great relationship you guys have as people if nothing else.
So be comforted in the fact that you were able to do something so hard, and know you will get through it with time.
If I could send a bowl through the computer to you I would. ^_^
Also, I awkwardly have to thank you for not breaking Moondoggy's heart the way I always worried someone would...
And I hope you're still coming to the con! You KNOW you want to be a gunslinger!
Feel better.
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I really like you, and all of her friends, really, so to know that
1) you're not going to kill me for breaking up with Moondoggy and
2) I'm still welcomed among you
really helps.
I lost my fiance, I didn't want to lose a bunch of good friends while I was at it.
So thanks.
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I feel like over the times you've visited MN with Moondoggy you've earned a spot among us past the 'friend's boyfriend' status. Which is eons more than I can say for some people who've been in that group for years.
I hope you think so to. And we're all here to support both of you.
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