Feb 27, 2005 02:39
If it takes shit to make bliss...well i feel pretty blissfully
Well if life's not beautiful without the pain than i would rather never ever see beauty again
LIfe is going well. I promised myself on the way back to pullman this past monday that i would try and jsut have fun. That i wouldn't be phased by the little things and i wouldn't get caught up in the drama because that was not like me very long ago but i feel like i have drifted into that ridiculously distructive habit. err. I hate that about myself. The little things bother me here. The things people say stay in my head longer and i notice myself being so destructive to who i am. I think it is the people i have surrounded myself with. I love them to death, don't get me wrong. I would not have had such a beneficial first semester and such if i haven't formed the friendships i have but the way the influence me and think has changed the way i think. That influence whether they mean it to be negative( most of the time they don't) somehow gets morphed into something destructive. I think it is because i don't feel supported here. As much as i did( or i think anyone) does at home. errr. part of it may be me but i feel like i am so much more critical of myself. I am not haviing fun. Or the fun i could be having if i spent more of my time around people who are truly living!! ahh it feels good to finally understand how i am feeling.
I went to the something corporate concert on thursday. So badly needed! i had so much fun. Caitlin: i have not spent that much time around you at Wazzu. My whole night was changed by your beautiful presence. Without yo uthere i don't know what i would have done. It is funny to me that our friendship is that solid. We only see each other in Biology really and yet a night together enjoying music and cop activity(ahhh:-O) can completely reaffirm my love for you and how much you mean to me. Life, you;ve only got one. I don't remember that often enough. I think part of it is that i am not truly living on my own right now. I have lost the things that truly make me happy. Friends who show respect, alex and bein able to laugh for hours, bodies of water, beautiful sunsets oh whatever. I need to adjust and find new things to make me happy. Everything changes and you only have one chance. I love my life and those around me i just need to figure out the level playing field. Please have a good night, enjoy your life and if anyone wants to talk about life and things beautiful please either call me or we'l go to coffee.!! bless this life!!