Man, sounds like this guy just wants the easy way out. It's so obvious that this guy can't make up his mind about you. And that whole you moving to Portland thing...just sounds like he is lonely. Anyways, I'm glad you took that stance with him. There are better fish in the sea! Long distance is hard unless you plan on marrying him. I've been in long distance relationships and they never last. Too many people coming and going in your life when the SO is not around and you start to think, "Am I missing out? This guy over here seems great..." But that's me.
Oh btw, I moved to LA to take this fashion job but now I am laid off because the company is going out of business in 2 months. I'm still single but taken. ^-^ So is Liz and Maki down here?? Liz is getting married down here right?? Man, everyone is getting hitched.
hey em! ;) liz got married this past weekend! i saw bunch of random people from high school that i haven't seen in a really long time! the wedding was quite beautiful and reception, very martha stewart. and it was nice to reconnect with old friends again.
yeah, this guy cannot seem to make up his mind about me or commit. and this guy is like 34, it just goes to show, some guys just don't grow up or mature at any age. (not all, just some.) yes, there are better fish in the sea!!! :)
do you plan to come back to the bay area? or stay down there? what do you do? or want to do? since i just came off the unemployed market, i know some good recruiters and companies that are definitely hiring. and i have a few friends down in l.a. area who might be able to help! ;)
Ooooo really?? Yeah I think I want a simple clerical job right now. My last job really burnt me out and I'm really tired of the cattiness in the fashion business. I met lots of great people but I have also met a lot of biotches that won't get off their high horses. I'm also thinking of going into business for myself...that's why I was opting for something clerical or adminstrative. Doesn't look like I will be coming back up soon. I've kinda settled down here. I was thinking of taking a break before working again but it's summer and jobs might get snagged up faster. Yeah but if you know of some recruiters down here, give me a heads up. I am thinking of visiting Pru in NY maybe in July since she will be coming home sometimes around June. But if you're coming down here, feel free to stop by! ^^
Exactly. :( I found you from mindme and see you're in the Bay Area too, Julianne.
Just had one of my women friends go through this with her wishy-washy bf. Ugh! I hate hate people who act like this. Some of my guy roommates have tried to have it both ways with women, and I've called them on it.
Good luck in your romantic adventures. But please remember to be happy and whole by yourself. :p
how come there are so many wishy-washy guys out there? but i'm still hopeful that a decent kind of your species will cross my path sometime in the near future. :-)
i am actually very happy with myself and who i am. i just would love to share that happiness with someone else!
I'm in San Jose, and I was in Berkeley for 5 years.
I think wishy-washy, indecisive men (and women) either haven't had enough experience being committed to the opposite sex, or they have been able to cruise by with bad behavior, through their looks/money/etc.
They haven't been shaken and woken up yet to value others' time and heart enough to not lead them on aimlessly. Don't waste time with these people, trying to "change" them. You don't want to be their training ground for maturity.
As one of my friends said once, "I don't want to be his FIRST love. I want to be his LAST love!" :p
Oh btw, I moved to LA to take this fashion job but now I am laid off because the company is going out of business in 2 months. I'm still single but taken. ^-^ So is Liz and Maki down here?? Liz is getting married down here right?? Man, everyone is getting hitched.
Reply
Don't worry, I'm not. I'm far from it! Are you still with D?
Reply
Reply
liz got married this past weekend! i saw bunch of random people from high school that i haven't seen in a really long time! the wedding was quite beautiful and reception, very martha stewart. and it was nice to reconnect with old friends again.
yeah, this guy cannot seem to make up his mind about me or commit. and this guy is like 34, it just goes to show, some guys just don't grow up or mature at any age. (not all, just some.) yes, there are better fish in the sea!!! :)
do you plan to come back to the bay area? or stay down there? what do you do? or want to do? since i just came off the unemployed market, i know some good recruiters and companies that are definitely hiring. and i have a few friends down in l.a. area who might be able to help! ;)
Reply
Reply
i went to go visit marites, pru and marcita in february in nyc! it was awesome seeing them again!!
ok, lemme ask around for some names and contact info for you. ;)
Reply
Reply
Aww you did?? I totally want to see Prudence. Everytime I want to call her, I remember it's late over there!
it's emchin@[REMOVETHIS]hellokitty.com. just remove the [REMOVETHIS] part. i hate getting spam for more viagra ads and russian mail order brides! 0.0
Reply
Reply
but, i do know some recruiters down this way. send me your resume and i'll forwad it to them. :)
Reply
Just had one of my women friends go through this with her wishy-washy bf. Ugh! I hate hate people who act like this. Some of my guy roommates have tried to have it both ways with women, and I've called them on it.
Good luck in your romantic adventures. But please remember to be happy and whole by yourself. :p
Reply
i am actually very happy with myself and who i am. i just would love to share that happiness with someone else!
where in the bay area are you?
julianne
Reply
I'm in San Jose, and I was in Berkeley for 5 years.
I think wishy-washy, indecisive men (and women) either haven't had enough experience being committed to the opposite sex, or they have been able to cruise by with bad behavior, through their looks/money/etc.
They haven't been shaken and woken up yet to value others' time and heart enough to not lead them on aimlessly. Don't waste time with these people, trying to "change" them. You don't want to be their training ground for maturity.
As one of my friends said once, "I don't want to be his FIRST love. I want to be his LAST love!" :p
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment