Journal

[chained2u2]

Gratitude I am grateful for having finally found people I don’t feel weird around.

Physical I have showered, done my meds and have laid out my foot-love and lotion for my new Sunday ritual.

Social Yesterday I got a lot of social time. Today I will not. Yesterday I went to the fire. There were six students so it was a nice small group and had lots of

Comments

[softngentle]

Please tell me about the scoring system that you have (17 out of 25. I'd be interested and not because J scored 8, but because I'm interested in stuff like that, it might help me in other areas of my life and with some people I am counseling.

I am glad that you are working on taking care of you. I think of you often and pray for you to find what you need from within.

I am personally struggling with pre-menapause hormonal stuff, but otherwise am doing well emotionally. Physically I need gallbladder surgery, hernia repair and probably neck surgery at a later date.

Hopefully next time I am in pdx we can have lunch and maybe go to a museum or art show.

Wishing you all the best in love and life!

Scoring

[chained2u2]

Hi there. Thanks for reading. The scoring system is simply a list of things that I like or do. For instance being artistic is one of the criteria because I find that I relate better to people who are artistic in some manner, whether it be painting little figurines or beading jewelry or making wooden paddles that are practically works of art. Another criteria is being a second hand thrift store shopper. I am one and its like a fun hobby or game for me. Another criteria is sex, is this a person I want to or could have sex with. I don't expect all my friends to fit all my criteria. That would be plain silly, but I am finding that the more matches we have, the easier the friendship is to continue. I also notice that many of my old friends were low on the matching scale and I was feeling so alienated from them and always the "weirdo" that it was not good for my self esteem

[softngentle]

"Yes. I am still happy that I dumped him. We don’t match right. Yes, I enjoyed his company but he is at a different time in his life. He has different challenges and interests. I looked thru my friends list again the other night and he isn’t even close to the 17 out of 25 cut off that I have self -imposed. Just looked again, he scores an 8…and I kept him around for a year and a half? Crazy! A dear man but not what I need or look for. I hate that I hurt him when I ended the relationship