Clueless,
I feel like a total idiot because I've known him for 17 years, he was like my little bro, and now that he's gone I have no idea what I should do with his belongings.
Auntie Katie called me yesterday while I was at work and she sounded awful. She was sitting in Mike's room and looking at his things wondering how she can honor him. We talked and I did my best to calm her, I told her people she can call to talk to and of course my number was in there. I told her I would get back to her, unfortunately this is when all our help leaves at work and I have to pick up extra time. I am thinking of brainstorming a list of things for her to consider.
I appreciate any help I can get in this for the people who know how difficult it can be to disperse loved ones possessions. Any hints clues or methodologies on how to go about it would be welcome.
I am doing well with the whole situation, although I find the things that I keep saying, Mike always wanted to see this or I wish he could have finished this. But I am glad in the end he got to go out the way he wanted, comfortably.
Auntie Katie called me yesterday while I was at work and she sounded awful. She was sitting in Mike's room and looking at his things wondering how she can honor him. We talked and I did my best to calm her, I told her people she can call to talk to and of course my number was in there. I told her I would get back to her, unfortunately this is when all our help leaves at work and I have to pick up extra time. I am thinking of brainstorming a list of things for her to consider.
I appreciate any help I can get in this for the people who know how difficult it can be to disperse loved ones possessions. Any hints clues or methodologies on how to go about it would be welcome.
I am doing well with the whole situation, although I find the things that I keep saying, Mike always wanted to see this or I wish he could have finished this. But I am glad in the end he got to go out the way he wanted, comfortably.