Consent
I've been reading some stuff about consent recently, and it's all about spoken consent and how that's super important.
Here's one of the articles I'm talking about:
http://disabling-queer.dreamwidth.org/737.html And a Good response on Tumblr:
http://littlemissmutant.tumblr.com/post/9441620674/autostraddle-how-i-learned-to-talk-in-bed-why-this (
Bunch of Personal Musings About BDSM stuff - not graphic )