Pre-Courtship Questionnaire - Pt 12 Your Family
We Are Family! .... with the fundamentalist relationship meme of doom: http://www.stufffundieslike.com/2013/06/the-pre-courtship-questionnaire/.
230. How would you describe your relationship with your family choosing 1, 2 or 3?
1. We’re best friends/ We talk about everything?
2. We’re cordial but we don’t spend large amounts of time together./ When we are together conversation is kept to a general level.
3. We are enemies. / We never speak to each other.
2
231. Choose these options in each of the following relationships:
With your Dad?
2
With your Mom?
NA
With each of your siblings? (if you have any)
2
With your Grandparents?
NA
232. How much contact do you have with your family?
I see them about once a year
233. What type of contact do you have with them?
e-mail
sometimes
written letters
no
phone
on holidays
234. How often do you have this type of contact? Daily, Weekly, Monthly, Yearly?
See above.
235. If daily, how many times a day?
Goodness...
236. What do you feel are your current and future obligations to your family?
I need to maintain a loving relationship with them. Should any of them fall ill, I do have responsibilities there, but it's difficult as I live so far away. I also need to be a good uncle to my nephew, so I expect him to visit sometimes when he's a bit older. If he should ever be in need of a home, I would offer him mine.
237. What do you feel are your current and future obligations to my family?
I need to support you in your obligations and not cause problems.
230. How would you describe your relationship with your family choosing 1, 2 or 3?
1. We’re best friends/ We talk about everything?
2. We’re cordial but we don’t spend large amounts of time together./ When we are together conversation is kept to a general level.
3. We are enemies. / We never speak to each other.
2
231. Choose these options in each of the following relationships:
With your Dad?
2
With your Mom?
NA
With each of your siblings? (if you have any)
2
With your Grandparents?
NA
232. How much contact do you have with your family?
I see them about once a year
233. What type of contact do you have with them?
sometimes
written letters
no
phone
on holidays
234. How often do you have this type of contact? Daily, Weekly, Monthly, Yearly?
See above.
235. If daily, how many times a day?
Goodness...
236. What do you feel are your current and future obligations to your family?
I need to maintain a loving relationship with them. Should any of them fall ill, I do have responsibilities there, but it's difficult as I live so far away. I also need to be a good uncle to my nephew, so I expect him to visit sometimes when he's a bit older. If he should ever be in need of a home, I would offer him mine.
237. What do you feel are your current and future obligations to my family?
I need to support you in your obligations and not cause problems.