Seriously?

[celandinehobbit]

I recently was told by a friend that in the time she has known me (which has been a few years) that she still doesn't know me personally very well. I was shocked to say the least as I had thought that I was very open with her about my private life as we have talked about things..things that not too many people really *do* know but which I thought

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[sunkrux]

Considering I don't really know you that much, I'm just here to give you a hug. *hug* :D

Did this friend also ask you any questions she doesn't know the answers to about you? You realize that in order to get to know someone really well, sometimes YOU (meaning your friend) should ask questions.

Friendship is a two way street, that can at times be a little bumpy. If your lucky though you have friends who will weather the bumps with you.

[celandinehobbit]

*gathers hugs* She told me she didnt want to ask any questions as she felt it would come out in time. *shrug*

I have some rl friends though that I woldnt trade for anything so yes, you are completely correct. Thanks for the help and advice. :)

[sunkrux]

Excuse me? She's complaining that you're not open with her but she's not willing to ask questions? She needs to hush then, imho. I mean no disrespect to her, but seriously she shouldn't get upset or comment that you're not open enough with her if she's not willing to work at/on/with the relationship as well.

*hugs*

[celandinehobbit]

Maybe its just a case of her not wanting to know...who knows. *shrug* I still call her a good friend despite everything and just hope the strained friendship we now have will heal a bit with time. *hugs*

[sunkrux]

I hope so for your sake. *hugs*