okay here's what im thinking steph... everything that seems to be going on seems like a heck of a lot for ya, and i wish i could give you like an ounce of advice but i seem to really suck @ that so AH i dont even know why im commenting here. but yeah okay if theres one thing i know for sure...it's that you cant force anything. you especially cant force people into feeling things that they dont, or wont, or never will feel. but the thing is with chris- it def seems like he feels A LOT for you. so i think you're definitely doing the right thing by giving him space. that way, while he knows you care for him, he knows at the same time you RESPECT him and his family, and you're not forcing him into anything...ya know? as hard as it is~ and as much as you just want to call him and talk to him...i think its really really right of you not too- he wanted space...give it to him. ya know? i mean maybe your problem all along was that he just needed to have a little breathing room; because of his family, and or because you said it yourself you maybe rushed into everything > ya know? but i have no doubt that once he gets that room- he'll def come running back to you...you're such a good person, and he KNOWS how much you love him...so if it takes a month, or a year...i think he'll realize what hes missing.
Thank-you but I do not think he knows how much I love him.. and do not think he realizes what he is missing out on.. oh well his loss im over him...if he does not want to make an effort too even keep in touch.. or to even make sure im still alive o well .. i def. care about him so much and have called and texted to make sure he is ok .. because he up and left work... and got into an accident .. and he doesnt bother to call me back ... so o well
everything that seems to be going on seems like a heck of a lot for ya, and i wish i could give you like an ounce of advice but i seem to really suck @ that so AH i dont even know why im commenting here.
but yeah okay if theres one thing i know for sure...it's that you cant force anything. you especially cant force people into feeling things that they dont, or wont, or never will feel. but the thing is with chris- it def seems like he feels A LOT for you. so i think you're definitely doing the right thing by giving him space. that way, while he knows you care for him, he knows at the same time you RESPECT him and his family, and you're not forcing him into anything...ya know?
as hard as it is~ and as much as you just want to call him and talk to him...i think its really really right of you not too- he wanted space...give it to him. ya know? i mean maybe your problem all along was that he just needed to have a little breathing room; because of his family, and or because you said it yourself you maybe rushed into everything > ya know?
but i have no doubt that once he gets that room- he'll def come running back to you...you're such a good person, and he KNOWS how much you love him...so if it takes a month, or a year...i think he'll realize what hes missing.
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