Sep 18, 2007 13:24
Ever go through a really shitty situation and then see someone else headed down that path, looking like they may head toward that same curve you took, and you just wanna grab them by the shoulders, shake em hard and scream, "NO!!!! Turn around and RUN the f**k the other way!!! I've been where you are!, and I'm saving you the heartache and the trainwreck!"...........
But can't?
You can't, as in, its not your business, no matter how much it irks you, and not that you "can't" as in you don't have phonenumbers and email addresses.......
Ok, maybe that person WON'T take the same curve, or maybe they'll head toward another curve, possibly towards "saftey", or to some other end of unknown. Sure, their "big girls or boys", and you shouldn't have anything to worry about. IMO, No one really knows, but man, you try and tell yourself that just because seeing a person NOT take the curve of a bad mistake that it won't end happily, and you'll be arguing with yourself till.....well, it'll be an argument, for sure.
I need a drink. :)
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