First off Shawn-I don't get your whole deal with him how one day he doesn't trust you and the next weekend you two are friends again and I don't get it, but whatever...he's a nice guy, but I don't know about his intentions, or the whole situation and even if I did you wouldn't listen to me anyway.
As far as the Lock Haven thing I think it's dumb that you want to transfer, but it's my opinion...you were there for a semester and always came home on the weekends, which means you lost your chance of meeting new people and such...I also think it's crap that Shawn is one of your reasons for transfering seeing he's already pretty much told you he doesn't see you in any more then a friends way, so unless that changed I think it's kind of ridiculous. You had your chance to be my roomate how many times and you said no, so I don't really feel bad about the roomate thing either.
I know someone is going to bitch about this, but I don't really care...Ashley asked for honesty and that's what I gave her...if she wants to got to PSU-Altoona or the Mount knock yourself out...I just think it's nonsense, but hey what do I know, I'm not up your ass 24-7!
The thing with Shawn and I is this.. we actually talked. Screwing up was maybe the best thing. If I told anyone my friends what made him or me coem to a conclusion they would think i was an idiot or something.
I have to transfer anyway, be it in the spring or fall. I will not have a place to live after fall. I couldn't be your roommate becasue you weren't in lock haven yet and you weren't accepted till after I had to have a roommate lined up for fall. So I can't help that one.
Hey I'm not bashing anyone for honesty, I understand how you feel and what you are saying.
but its my turn for honesty and this is for everyone: I do love shawn - this isn't all about him - I don't want to make it all about him - ther are other factors. I don't want anyone jumping to conclusions that I am transferring only because of him. It's not the truth. I wont lie to you all though does he factor in? Yes he does. Does the whoel grant thing factor in? Yes!
But LHU is basically giving me no choice. I will have to move and I might as well do it now.
Trust me PSU-A is not where i will try to go. I don't want to go to the mount either but i will have a place to live same with UPJ. I always wanted to go to Pitt so maybe I can attend pitt after I graduate UPJ.
If anyone is mad so be it. I don't want them to think its all about Shawn or even Rae was a factor in it. She's not. St. Francis is more expensive than the Mt. or I'd go there.
I appreciate everyone's opinion, I just wanted to know what everyone thought. I had already made my decision thats why I said it didn't matter what you said. I didn't want you to hold things back. When I wrote it thats what i meant not something like I don't care what you have to say I just wanted everyone to write what they felt.
If I lose friends over this so be it. I think its dumb though. It's my education, my health, and more importantly my life and I will do what I have to when I have to, to get what I want.
First off Shawn-I don't get your whole deal with him how one day he doesn't trust you and the next weekend you two are friends again and I don't get it, but whatever...he's a nice guy, but I don't know about his intentions, or the whole situation and even if I did you wouldn't listen to me anyway.
As far as the Lock Haven thing I think it's dumb that you want to transfer, but it's my opinion...you were there for a semester and always came home on the weekends, which means you lost your chance of meeting new people and such...I also think it's crap that Shawn is one of your reasons for transfering seeing he's already pretty much told you he doesn't see you in any more then a friends way, so unless that changed I think it's kind of ridiculous. You had your chance to be my roomate how many times and you said no, so I don't really feel bad about the roomate thing either.
I know someone is going to bitch about this, but I don't really care...Ashley asked for honesty and that's what I gave her...if she wants to got to PSU-Altoona or the Mount knock yourself out...I just think it's nonsense, but hey what do I know, I'm not up your ass 24-7!
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I have to transfer anyway, be it in the spring or fall. I will not have a place to live after fall. I couldn't be your roommate becasue you weren't in lock haven yet and you weren't accepted till after I had to have a roommate lined up for fall. So I can't help that one.
Hey I'm not bashing anyone for honesty, I understand how you feel and what you are saying.
but its my turn for honesty and this is for everyone:
I do love shawn - this isn't all about him - I don't want to make it all about him - ther are other factors. I don't want anyone jumping to conclusions that I am transferring only because of him. It's not the truth. I wont lie to you all though does he factor in? Yes he does. Does the whoel grant thing factor in? Yes!
But LHU is basically giving me no choice. I will have to move and I might as well do it now.
Trust me PSU-A is not where i will try to go. I don't want to go to the mount either but i will have a place to live same with UPJ. I always wanted to go to Pitt so maybe I can attend pitt after I graduate UPJ.
If anyone is mad so be it. I don't want them to think its all about Shawn or even Rae was a factor in it. She's not. St. Francis is more expensive than the Mt. or I'd go there.
I appreciate everyone's opinion, I just wanted to know what everyone thought. I had already made my decision thats why I said it didn't matter what you said. I didn't want you to hold things back. When I wrote it thats what i meant not something like I don't care what you have to say I just wanted everyone to write what they felt.
If I lose friends over this so be it. I think its dumb though. It's my education, my health, and more importantly my life and I will do what I have to when I have to, to get what I want.
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