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[calcgoddess1183]

I woke up today sounding like a bullfrog. I guess its from the drainage. I feel better now that I've been up for a little bit, but I am definately not going back today. As soon as I am done here I am going home and resting some more. I rested for about four hours today and that helped immensely, though I did have a blatently ual dream about AJ

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[dargus]

I think Laurie is right about looking at the track record of a guy or girl. I usually do this by getting to know their friends. I think a person's friends are a good indicator of what the person has done in the past. Most of my friends in Stillwater come from D&D games I've played. I also think it is important to become good friends with someone if you are thinking of a long term relationship like marriage.

I definitely know how you feel about accomplishing some personal goals before settling down. I have been going to college and working to earn an accounting degree. I don't think my life will be sane until I accomplish this goal or give up. Working 40 hours per week and taking 12 hours of classes doesn't give time for much else. Even my gaming time suffers greatly which makes me sad.

I would concentrate on working towards your goals and making strong friendships. If you get to a point where you think you can compromise your goals for another person, then you may be ready for marriage. I would tell AJ you aren't ready and you need to accomplish your goals before you will be ready.

I am very skeptical when people say they had a message from God. I think most of the time it comes from a person's own desires, feelings or goals. This may be because I have never experienced anything remotely similar. The only thing which is close is a couple of times I have been saved from diaster by someone else.