I also find myself wondering, yet again, if I really am a submissive or just someone with submissive like desires. For a little back story, I wish to be in a D/s relationship. I am not a slave, nor do I wish to have a Master. So I try to buy books on D/s and not M/s. I try to buy books that address submission and dominance. But so many of them seem ( Read more... )

How come in pictures of women dominating men, if the woman is getting her pleasure, it’s ALWAYS of her getting cunnilingus ( Read more... )

And, of course, it's a kink one. Taken from
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Apparently people have been using my Switch Pride Flag (sometimes even as the official one!), even though I EXPLICITLY put that it was a draft. And some of these people using it haven't been putting the attribution that I created it or the Creative Commons license that I have it licensed under.

Note ( Read more... )

Dear LORD, I am so tired of fetish-negativity. Seeing people state in their groups that fetishism towards their group will not be allowed... on a website named FETLife (short for Fetish Life) just makes my head go asplody. I don't get it. I don't fucking get it ( Read more... )

No, really, I haven't gone right wing on you all here. I swear. Let me explain ( Read more... )

I'm at Crucible's Medical Academy. I just got two sutures through my leg. The first one was a 4-0 suture, silk. Pretty big needle. And it was the top's first suture. It was the most excruciating experience of my life... possibly even worse than having appendicitis. But I did it. And I'm so fucking proud of myself. The 2nd one was 5-0 nylon with a ( Read more... )

(x-posted from FetLife, sans a quote someone wrote on there that I haven't gotten permission to x-post ( Read more... )

So my Boston trip seems to be turning into a New England tour. I have a group in Albany that possibly wants me and a group in Hartford that might want me. (And, yes, FinMagik, if I'm in Albany, I'd love for you to come and see me. Unfortunately, I won't have a car, so I can't come to you ( Read more... )

So I'm taking my brain dump and I'm making it friends only, as quite a bit of what I wrote about were things concerning OTHER people and I didn't exactly get permission from all of them to post them. But they were all things I saw and they were all things I want to write about in my diary. So I'm making them friends only. If you want on this list ( Read more... )