It's not a matter of being afraid of approaching him. It's a matter of my philosophy that my life is drama free when I'm not involved with any guy in a more than friendly manner and right now I don't need any drama in my life. haha. Get it? There was enough drama in my last "relationship" if you could even call it that to last me a long time.
I don't know. I'll probably talk to him and try to get to know him better because I mean I didn't even know he was in my class. I don't want to just agree to go out with someone that I know nothing about. I'm not sure why he even asked me. I mean we'd never talked and that always makes me think that the guy just thinks I'm pretty and doesn't give a shit who I really am and that bugs me.
I know how you feel about having that "drama-free" life without being in a relationship. I haven't been in one for over 3.5 years now. I'm not saying marry the guy, but go eat with him. He seems all right, and it's not like you would HAVE to date the guy. My problem with even finding a girlfriend is me being so carefree. When I go out with a chick, I go into it knowing that if it there aren't any sparks, then whatever. I just made a friend. I think a lot of people are so adamant on finding someone, that they develop fears and loneliness, but when you don't (like me and you), things are fine.
Ahaha. I've never had a good, meaningful relationship. So, you and I both.
I almost called you yesterday. Because I felt like it'd been too long since I last talked to you. But then my dad started yelling at the Yankees/Red Sox game because he hates the Yankees and it distracted me and I forgot. But yeah. Don't be surprised if one day I call. Even though I know you think phones are evil. DEAL WITH IT. ;-D
Was the guy that talked to you, was he cute? Because as shallow as it sounds, some attraction is important. Don't make the mistake I always do of giving a guy a chance because you feel obligated to, even though there's no attraction. Or something.
I do think phones are evil, but at least we share the whole "dead silence is sucky" idea! :-)
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You should study with the boy. It's no committment, and even if you do study better on your own, you can do that later...and you'll have a chance to get to know him. Once guys are told no, they often move on and close that door. I know it's a cliche, but don't burn your bridges. Even if you don't like him like that, he could end up being a really awesome friend.
That's awesome about school. Please just don't overload yourself more than you need to. It's too easy to use that as an excuse to withdraw from social activity...I know because I do this sometimes.
Pampered Chef ROCKS!
I've started a healthy diet and working out daily now because I'm weak and out of shape and getting a little too much fat around the edges...haha.
*Cute Alert...* YAY!!!! Tomorrow is the new episode!!! *yummy boy*
I would study with him, but it just kind of bugs me the way he approached me. I mean he never even tried to talk to me in class. It was just kind of weird. I mean if he suggested a study GROUP then sure I probably would have said yes, but I just...I don't know. I don't want to say yes and have him think it's a date or something and then everything go all bad and me get all dgkhfdklgfjsdhddfgj. I can talk to him in class and get to know his before I go off somewhere with him when all I know is his name. I'm paranoid. haha. But anyways...
If I didn't overload myself, I wouldn't be me! :-P
I agree!! I LOVE COOkING! :-)
Did your mom ever buy you new clothes before you left?
I really do look forward to this show. It makes me happy. haha
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I don't know. I'll probably talk to him and try to get to know him better because I mean I didn't even know he was in my class. I don't want to just agree to go out with someone that I know nothing about. I'm not sure why he even asked me. I mean we'd never talked and that always makes me think that the guy just thinks I'm pretty and doesn't give a shit who I really am and that bugs me.
I'm stopping now. haha
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I almost called you yesterday. Because I felt like it'd been too long since I last talked to you. But then my dad started yelling at the Yankees/Red Sox game because he hates the Yankees and it distracted me and I forgot. But yeah. Don't be surprised if one day I call. Even though I know you think phones are evil. DEAL WITH IT. ;-D
Was the guy that talked to you, was he cute? Because as shallow as it sounds, some attraction is important. Don't make the mistake I always do of giving a guy a chance because you feel obligated to, even though there's no attraction. Or something.
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I saw a preview that said I <3 Huckabees is opening nationwide oct 22nd which is Friday! I'm coming home because I have to go get my meds on the base that day and I could come home early and we could go see it if it's playing in Destin! MARKY MARK! WOO ( ... )
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You should study with the boy. It's no committment, and even if you do study better on your own, you can do that later...and you'll have a chance to get to know him. Once guys are told no, they often move on and close that door. I know it's a cliche, but don't burn your bridges. Even if you don't like him like that, he could end up being a really awesome friend.
That's awesome about school. Please just don't overload yourself more than you need to. It's too easy to use that as an excuse to withdraw from social activity...I know because I do this sometimes.
Pampered Chef ROCKS!
I've started a healthy diet and working out daily now because I'm weak and out of shape and getting a little too much fat around the edges...haha.
*Cute Alert...* YAY!!!! Tomorrow is the new episode!!! *yummy boy*
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If I didn't overload myself, I wouldn't be me! :-P
I agree!! I LOVE COOkING! :-)
Did your mom ever buy you new clothes before you left?
I really do look forward to this show. It makes me happy. haha
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This is true. (about overloading yourself)
My mom bought me a few things, nothing that can't be worn when I lose weight...you know, I can wear belts...and shirts aren't that big of a deal.
I love hot boys on that show!
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