update on the drama... i found out it stemmed from what i posted here when i was drunk. whatever. so im making this one open for anyone to read, and this is what i have to say about the matter
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"don't take it personally" means just that. i didn't take you off for any reason other than you dont post often and i figured you dont read my journal. i didnt know you had anything to do with them finding out, and frankly i only slightly care. the changes to my friends list were not made to exclude certain people, but rather to only include certain people, individually considered and decided upon for specific reasons (seeing as you have no idea for what reasons i chose to keep the people i did, you have no grounds to comment on them).
and as for people reading it that i didnt expect to, im not angry about it... at most i find it unfortunate and inconvenient, but only because they, and you, sorely misunderstand the purpose for my journal, and the reason i keep it mostly private. if you'd like to find out the purpose of my journal and why i have my friends list as it is, ask me sometime, i'm not going to post any type of lengthy response to that regard, suffice to say that anyone who does understand the purpose for my journal understands that it it is generally meaningless, though it might seem otherwise.
the only thing i'd ask you to consider is this... if you did have something to do with them finding out, what possible good could have come from your actions? if i felt as strongly as that entry would suggest about these people, then i probably wouldnt have anything to do with them anyways, so my feelings really would have no meaning to them. the only thing you could have accomplished was passing along a message that they had no reason to need to hear, thereby ensuring that their feelings were hurt, and ensuring that both their lives and my own would become more complicated. what you did was really only to spread gossip, thereby giving it strength and meaning that it previously lacked, all in the name of denouncing it. my point is this - i am not going to tell you what you should feel is right or wrong, so please give me the same respect and dont impose your inclinations of right and wrong on me by involving yourself in situations that do not concern you. in this case, i'll let it slide without another thought, but please bear that in mind for the future.
also, keep in mind that like i said, i was drunk when i wrote it in the first place. and you of all people should understand that sometimes, its best not to judge someone by the things they say or do when they're drunk.
"also, keep in mind that like i said, i was drunk when i wrote it in the first place. and you of all people should understand that sometimes, its best not to judge someone by the things they say or do when they're drunk."
The last time I did I had a huge blow out knock down fight with Jason -- it took us a year to even talk to each other.
The fight started when I was drunk and said some things that I shouldn't have.
and as for people reading it that i didnt expect to, im not angry about it... at most i find it unfortunate and inconvenient, but only because they, and you, sorely misunderstand the purpose for my journal, and the reason i keep it mostly private. if you'd like to find out the purpose of my journal and why i have my friends list as it is, ask me sometime, i'm not going to post any type of lengthy response to that regard, suffice to say that anyone who does understand the purpose for my journal understands that it it is generally meaningless, though it might seem otherwise.
the only thing i'd ask you to consider is this... if you did have something to do with them finding out, what possible good could have come from your actions? if i felt as strongly as that entry would suggest about these people, then i probably wouldnt have anything to do with them anyways, so my feelings really would have no meaning to them. the only thing you could have accomplished was passing along a message that they had no reason to need to hear, thereby ensuring that their feelings were hurt, and ensuring that both their lives and my own would become more complicated. what you did was really only to spread gossip, thereby giving it strength and meaning that it previously lacked, all in the name of denouncing it. my point is this - i am not going to tell you what you should feel is right or wrong, so please give me the same respect and dont impose your inclinations of right and wrong on me by involving yourself in situations that do not concern you. in this case, i'll let it slide without another thought, but please bear that in mind for the future.
also, keep in mind that like i said, i was drunk when i wrote it in the first place. and you of all people should understand that sometimes, its best not to judge someone by the things they say or do when they're drunk.
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The last time I did I had a huge blow out knock down fight with Jason -- it took us a year to even talk to each other.
The fight started when I was drunk and said some things that I shouldn't have.
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just keep that in mind.
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