Dec 21, 2009 13:04
Sorry guys I gotta get this out. I'll read everybody's pages after I promise. This whole post is gonna be a rant about Shannon but not solely about her, I'm just using her as a jumping off point.
So as I said before she is getting divorced. It's totally official now. We're gonna go down to the court house sometime soon and get the seperation papers cause apparently you have to be legally seperated for six months before you can get legit divorced. I was alittle worried she might change her mind when Brian came home...WELL good news is that won't be happening...bad news...well...
there's this new guy. His name is Sean.
1. she's head over heels...
2. She's known him for a week
3. HE'S FORTY THREE
4. HE HAS TWO KIDS (one is three years younger than her)
5. He's moving to Tennesse for nine months to go to film school
6. She's seriously considering their life together...
7. HE FOUND HER WORK NUMBER (without asking her) and called her there the day after they met when he already had her cell phone number and they already talked when she wasn't at work.
Honestly...I don't know what to say. I don't understand why people are so terrified to be alone...do you really dislike yourself to the extent that you're about to commit yourself completely to a stranger before you're even out of your other relationship just to keep from being alone? O.o
I just don't get it. I've been through this many a time with many a friend. Hell I went through it once myself. I've been lonely before to the extent of being with people I don't want to be with but that was before I liked myself. People all you have to do is focus on you and loving yourself cause if you don't do that you're never gonna be happy.
Shit I don't know what to say. I guess the only thing to say is please don't make me say "I told you so."
frustration.,
women