Fuel for the fire...
Upon further recon, I now know whoever that girl is, she's a past tense. Apparently they were seeing each other briefly over the summer. Like June-Julyish. And then pretty much as soon as anybody knew she was around, she wasn't anymore. Which explains why he wasn't talking to me for a while there, even more standoff than he had been, and then he picked up the communication again say late July, into August. The point is, he never told me at the time, and was unable to let me go completely, even when I told him to. Several times.
I actually feel better knowing this. On a juvenile selfish level, I'm relieved to know he doesn't have this girl now. And apparently even when he thought he did, he failed to cut me out completely. That's mildly satisfying.
On the other hand, this knowledge is just fuel for my angry fire. How DARE he play me for that long. And what finally made him tell me? I dunno. And I don't really care. The point is, he's even more of a "I want it all" jerk than I thought originally.
I'm now determined to throw it in his face. Happiness is the best revenge. I'm not letting him keep me from the wedding. But I def won't see him til then, and I may not talk to him either.
ASS.
I actually feel better knowing this. On a juvenile selfish level, I'm relieved to know he doesn't have this girl now. And apparently even when he thought he did, he failed to cut me out completely. That's mildly satisfying.
On the other hand, this knowledge is just fuel for my angry fire. How DARE he play me for that long. And what finally made him tell me? I dunno. And I don't really care. The point is, he's even more of a "I want it all" jerk than I thought originally.
I'm now determined to throw it in his face. Happiness is the best revenge. I'm not letting him keep me from the wedding. But I def won't see him til then, and I may not talk to him either.
ASS.