So I'm a landlord, and we've had trouble getting a fourth cool person in the house. We finally do, kid named stephen, nerdy pothead. My archetype
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generally, it's a good idea not to sleep with your friend's girlfriend. And if they do break up, then he sounds like he's going to be more heartbroken over it than she would be, and sleeping with her would probably be even worse in that situation.
maybe you should focus less on sex and more on having actual relationships.
Right. I understand the consequences, but I'm not going to focus on relationship stuff until normandy moves back to kansas. As far as it goes, the best decision I can make is to just see where this takes me. I am putting in zero effort, when normally I'd probably play negative effort and turn her off of me.
well, there are several kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones. It's funny, but almost every time you mention a girl in this journal, you either are crushing on her, or had sex with her and don't like her any more, or something along those lines.
I'm perfectly content with just being friends with sarah, and I do honestly have feamle friends I have no designs upon. It was just some of the things she said, the way she acted
. . . you are right though, I am an odd sort with women
Nah, you are just kind of apathetic. However, realize that sometimes people make mistakes. It does sound like she's not putting all of her hopes in the guy and isn't really ready for a relationship to begin with, but you put yourself in a different boat by allowing her to have her way if she attempts to sleep with you. If she does make that attempt, and you accept, you are saving her from something, in her mind, or providing an escape.
Don't take in a wounded bird, man. No matter how cool she is and how much she may think she wants it, let her deal with her mistakes maturely instead of sleeping around behind her boyfriends back, if it comes to that.
You might have to rely on a bit of personal fortitude to turn her down, after all, she should know better and it'd be very unprofessional of you to get involved that way. If she breaks it off with the guy, soups on. If she doesn't, i'd recommend against touching it.
maybe you should focus less on sex and more on having actual relationships.
*shrugs* just my advice.
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Why not just have friends?
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. . . you are right though, I am an odd sort with women
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Don't take in a wounded bird, man. No matter how cool she is and how much she may think she wants it, let her deal with her mistakes maturely instead of sleeping around behind her boyfriends back, if it comes to that.
You might have to rely on a bit of personal fortitude to turn her down, after all, she should know better and it'd be very unprofessional of you to get involved that way. If she breaks it off with the guy, soups on. If she doesn't, i'd recommend against touching it.
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