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Oct 14, 2005 18:45

ok so like he hasn't called me back in a week.wtf is up there?hell i dunno.i was talking to jason last night and he was telling me how sad i sounded.that i needed to get all the BUllSHIT off my chest or i would bottle it in and hurt longer.knowing this...i called wen...the really nice lady on the other end of the phone(i assume is his mom)told me ( Read more... )

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thelonelysavior October 15 2005, 10:15:37 UTC

You know, it's hard to love someone who doesn't show love back. I'm not talking about saying "I love you" at the end of a call, nor am I talking about long passionate kisses given to one another at every parting(not that this one neccessarily applies). I'm talking about actually caring about someone and doing what you can to SINCERELY show it. It seems to me that you are putting a lot more into this relationship than he is, which is unbalanced. Now love may be a mysetery, but relationsips are not. Relationships are a trade, and when one person gets less than another, that's an unfair trade, and cannot go on for the sake of the who is giving more than recieving. Wen can be a great person, believe me I should know. But if you keep going through this with him, it's going to just tear you apart. I do not want to see this happen to you. You are a wonderful girl, you're unbelievebly beautiful, and smart, and funny. You shouldn't put yourself through this. Even if you can make an ultimatum with him, you still have to deal with the difficulty ( ... )

thelonelysavior October 15 2005, 11:20:43 UTC

You logged off so i'm going to post what i was going to tell.
Love is not forgiveness, Love can involve forgiveness in some situations, but Love is caring about someone, and wanting what is right for them. Forgiving them can be like burning a history book and pretending that the holocaust never happened. Forgiving and forgetting is bad, it's just okaying what the other person did, to themselves and to you. If you forgive, let it be on your terms. If he calls, and you forgive him, i guarentee that things will not have truly changed, and you won't be able to forgive on your own terms.