Adam (mankind) lives in theory
I’ve come to find that words don't mean much anymore. I always thought if I talked long enough eventually I would be able to put my feelings into words. But feelings aren't words, and you shouldn't have to explain your feelings. Too often I hear someone ask another why they love them? I've been asked this question before and it is daunting. In fact there should not be an anwser to this question if your feelings are true. Feelings aren't words... They are feelings. If love wasn't a feeling then it would just be something you say. A better question to gauge someones interest might be to ask them, "What makes me beautiful?" If their answer only includes your physical attributes, this should give you some indication of vanity. If their answer contains items regarding your personality, heart, or soul then you should be content. You can talk for days and never find the right thing to say that couldn't be twisted or taken out of context. I find myself answering things very directly to avoid hurt feelings or confusion. Giving a simple yes or no. I've always been able to express myself and would feel that I am a very complex yet A reasonable person. Until I met my foe. The Intelligent, complex yet unreasonable person. This person will be able to disqualify your feelings, dash all of your dreams and make you feel inadequate.(No matter how sure you are of yourself) The trick to dealing (yes dealing) with this person is not to avoid them. Avoiding something doesn't make it go away, it will only force regret and bigger problems in the future. Instead, challenge this person to understand you. Lay all of your issues and qualms on the table. Their response will be usual. They will pick apart your feelings, taking anything possible out of context and if all else fails point out your grammatical errors just to feel big. This person will never admit that they have done wrong, because to them it isn't wrong. Why challenge that? What is more rewarding then knowing you gave your all and never let yourself become jaded? After all of this you are the true winner because you have been yourself and didn't let anyone invalidate you. Do you, get free and never sell yourself short.
Don't forget who you are and where you stand in the struggle.
Don't forget who you are and where you stand in the struggle.