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[brihanon]

I spent Christmas with my Brother and his children. The absents of my SIL was every where even when we went to visit extended family. She left money for her kids for the Christmas after she passed. My brother handed it out to them at the breakfast table stateing this is from your Mother. Needless to say we all wiped a tear from our eyes

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[violets_r_blu]

I'm sorry your hubby didn't go with you. My father did the same thing to my mother a few times, as I recall. It can be difficult for us all to let go of past hurts, experiences, whatever they may be, but it does sometimes seem that it's harder for men. That's been my experience anyway. But I don't really think it's gender specific. We all have our bruises from our past. Some of us let go easier than others, that's all.
Maybe try to talk to him easily throughout this year, and help prep him for next holiday season? Just try to be patient, and not take it personally. Most likely, it's got nothing to do with you...these are 'his' feelings, whatever they may be. But I hope he can get past them, and be with you for future holidays and important occasions. With my Dad, he had some bitterness towards my mom's side of the family, i'm not sure what that was about. I just know he didn't go to some very important events with her, and it made her upset. :/ But, it's past...over and done with. I hope your hubby comes around and is with you next time!
Hugs*

[brihanon]

Thanks for the encouragement. My first goal is to get him to come to Church with me. I think that the holiday thing will follow after that.