For all those wondering about the title of this week's (AWESOME) episode, the only likely song by that title I was able to find is this crazy beautiful piece by Gravenhurst:
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As for meanings in the title, I figured it referred to Dean (and Sam) being forged by the heat of the metaphorical fire, as well as, of course, Mary's initial demise, but I'd love to hear anyone else's interpretations ...