Oh baby... I'm not going to sit here and do the "plenty more fish" thing, but I really think that this is the best decision for both of you. I mean, ever since I've known you you've always been arguing and agonising over the relationship and while I know it sucks to break up with someone and doubtless you still love her... It's the best thing. It feels like the end of the world, I know, but... best thing. Go to the docs - that will certainly ease the pain a little and help you get through it. Throw yourself into books, your essays, writing feminazi poetry and songs, making action plans for your riot grrl collective, seeing friends... SPeaking of which, I don't really have that much money but maybe over the festive period you'd like a visit from your favourite nuft? I've never been to Cardiff and I'm sure you could take me to lots of places. Just hang in there. It sucks, but you're stronger than it, I know. All my love. xxx
cheers Gem. i know yr right. i'm feeling a bit better, i've been keeping busy and stuff and have lots of plans for the next coupla weeks now so i should be okay... i guess it'll just take a bit of getting used to?!
it would be great if you could visit but i'm not sure what's going on at the moment... apparently i'm supposed to be going to brighton for about a week over new year, and i have an absolute shitload of work to do. Although maybe at the end of january? i'm trying to think, my exam period ends on jan 18th but i don't think i go back to uni until the beginning of Feb. what do you reckon?
if not i'm planning to go to Warwick to visit everybody, sometime in the new year. i'm sure you'd be welcome to stay at my old housemates' house as well, or if not i could visit you - yr back in leicestershire now aren't you?
i'm sorry London didn't work out. I've only just read your live journal, havne't really been on the internet much recently, i hope you're okay.
if ya need a chat or summin let me know or if you want to take your mind off her come over ours.. we always doing something! im sure we can find something to keep you happy and amused.
infact yeh your more than welcome anytime round ours! :D
x cheer up... and im sure it will sort its self out. someway
Man, get out there &keep busy - be with your friends, do things that interest you, get work done. Don't let the world pass you by, be ready for anything. Hope you feel happier soon xx
the end of an era...bruisedbeautyDecember 27 2004, 19:02:05 UTC
this message is being send 14 days after you posted so maybe you and carys are back together now...I dont know...you guys are always breaking up and getting back together again! Oh yes...you are probably thinking...who the fuck is this? Well, it's Clare...I just couldnt be fucked with my own livejournal so Gemma gave me the link you yours...and what an interesting life you live, my petal! Hope you are well...and chin up, chuck. *hugs* xxx
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Go to the docs - that will certainly ease the pain a little and help you get through it. Throw yourself into books, your essays, writing feminazi poetry and songs, making action plans for your riot grrl collective, seeing friends... SPeaking of which, I don't really have that much money but maybe over the festive period you'd like a visit from your favourite nuft? I've never been to Cardiff and I'm sure you could take me to lots of places. Just hang in there. It sucks, but you're stronger than it, I know. All my love. xxx
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it would be great if you could visit but i'm not sure what's going on at the moment... apparently i'm supposed to be going to brighton for about a week over new year, and i have an absolute shitload of work to do. Although maybe at the end of january? i'm trying to think, my exam period ends on jan 18th but i don't think i go back to uni until the beginning of Feb. what do you reckon?
if not i'm planning to go to Warwick to visit everybody, sometime in the new year. i'm sure you'd be welcome to stay at my old housemates' house as well, or if not i could visit you - yr back in leicestershire now aren't you?
i'm sorry London didn't work out. I've only just read your live journal, havne't really been on the internet much recently, i hope you're okay.
take care of yourself. lots of love, me xoxox
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infact yeh your more than welcome anytime round ours! :D
x cheer up... and im sure it will sort its self out. someway
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thanks for the invite heh! where do you live?! i might just take you up on the offer...
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May all your dreams and wishes come true xxx
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