Feb 02, 2004 07:09
there are some things in this world which make me really sad.
if you're not ready for it, don't do it. don't do it for the dignity of yourself, for the sake of yourself. i've had 3 different cousins go down the same path, and all three were scarred. my family forced them to marry. one of them got divorced, and the other two are miserable. the names of the fruit of this mistake are Jan Marc, Eileen Marie, and Franco Luis. they are real people. this really happens.
i say all of this for your own self. my being holds no account in this. i feel this from very deep inside of me. it is not a whim, not a burning conscience. this is from the core.
it is not too late. stand up for yourself. encapture this dignity within you and let it uphold you. do this for yourself. trust me that i only say this because i care about you as a person.%