Nov 27, 2009 07:45
I was wrong!
My uncle passed away! He was only 53 years old, he was ill but wow that close to christmas - that is a little depressing.
Yesterday I phoned my cousin (his daughter) to say I am sorry and ask for help and she was like"What why do I need help?" I asked if she was not informed - they had very rar Contact - and she said. "No what hapend?" And I had to tell her the truth. Damn that hurt. Now she had to break it to her mom. Then I phoned my dad - his brother - to ask why he did not phone her. He wasn´t informed either.
WHAT the hell??? I asked my friend (she is a nurse and her workmate was with him as it happens) if it is really true and she said sadly yes. They did not informed anyone because his girlfriend lives in his house and they search for a place to stay for her with a 24 hours watch - they have a bad feeling that she will harm herself when she finds out. I mean he died thuesday what the hell did they say to her where he is????
My dad was an ass!!!! He did not ask me about my wedding - he did not thank me for the Thank you card - he was like "Thanks for informing me about the death of my brother. have a nice evening. Goodbye." I never planned to phone him because he never showed to my wedding and did not once phoned me since may. What a father would do something like that??? I am angry as hell. I am not going to gratulate him for his 50 th. birthday next week. Arghhhhhhhhhhh
Hope you all are well
Have a nice weekend
Love Monika