Yeah? Prove it.
You know, I am pretty sure everything everyone has been telling me is correct. Maybe I just like punishing myself. Maybe I like to think that people can change for the better against my general assumption that all mankind does it lie, cheat and steal to get what they want because it's part of our animal instincts. Not just one person in general, it's EVERYONE. So I am going to think this way about my lovelife. And you know what, don't bother posting "Oh, my so and so would never do that," cuz sadly:
"The National Center for Health Statistics recently released a report which found that 43
percent of first marriages end in separation or divorce within 15 years...
"About 50% of first marriages for men under age 45 may end in
divorce, and between 44 and 52% of women's first marriages
may end in divorce for these age groups. The likelihood of a divorce
is lowest for men and women age 60, for whom 36 % of men
and 32 percent of women may divorce from their first marriage by
the end of their lives..."
And I wonder what the statistics are for people that cheat on their spouses? Yeah, so I might be crazy for always doubting when someone says "I love you," but I will not be one of these fools that finds out later in life that the person that has been sleeping with them every night has been sleeping with someone else every day or morning...
But that is the extreme, I am not married. And you better believe that I am having a pre-nup with WHOEVER I decide to marry.
The one person I love with all of my heart is the same person my trust fluctuates with every other day... I hear something from someone, or I find out a fact that I had not known previously, and it sets me off.
So I guess here is really where an opinion matters...
You get stabbed in the back (I mean, I have been lots of times and have forgiven). That person swears that they will be better, they know you have no reason to trust them but they will try to earn back your trust.
WHAT... HOW... can they show you to PROVE IT??
I am finding out details from the whore that are things that happened before this whole mess, or during... before we settled a lot. And he says she is lying. But I believe maybe 45% of it, cuz some of it does sound like something he would say. Then again, she is the HS drama queen that just happened to end up in 13th grade... So, who to believe...
"The National Center for Health Statistics recently released a report which found that 43
percent of first marriages end in separation or divorce within 15 years...
"About 50% of first marriages for men under age 45 may end in
divorce, and between 44 and 52% of women's first marriages
may end in divorce for these age groups. The likelihood of a divorce
is lowest for men and women age 60, for whom 36 % of men
and 32 percent of women may divorce from their first marriage by
the end of their lives..."
And I wonder what the statistics are for people that cheat on their spouses? Yeah, so I might be crazy for always doubting when someone says "I love you," but I will not be one of these fools that finds out later in life that the person that has been sleeping with them every night has been sleeping with someone else every day or morning...
But that is the extreme, I am not married. And you better believe that I am having a pre-nup with WHOEVER I decide to marry.
The one person I love with all of my heart is the same person my trust fluctuates with every other day... I hear something from someone, or I find out a fact that I had not known previously, and it sets me off.
So I guess here is really where an opinion matters...
You get stabbed in the back (I mean, I have been lots of times and have forgiven). That person swears that they will be better, they know you have no reason to trust them but they will try to earn back your trust.
WHAT... HOW... can they show you to PROVE IT??
I am finding out details from the whore that are things that happened before this whole mess, or during... before we settled a lot. And he says she is lying. But I believe maybe 45% of it, cuz some of it does sound like something he would say. Then again, she is the HS drama queen that just happened to end up in 13th grade... So, who to believe...