awh doll.. it seems like you both need to seriously talk about this.. i'm not trying to butt in or give you advice you don't want to hear.. but if you are planning to get married to him.. it seems like things will have to change, or else you won't ever be happy.. get some answers darling.. *hug*
:) thanks.... i try to get answers but he always thinks im over reacting...and half the time when we talk about stuff, itll be okay for a while then hell go back to doing things the way he always does....but yeah...weekend at his house so im ganna try to talk to him about this and dig up some very much needed answers....
hey babe. please take care of yourself. if he cant give you answerd then the communication in the relationship must not be that good. you cant have a relationship with out communication. i mean the worst things could happen and if there is good communication then things can be talked out and resolved. and if his behavious is a pattern and hes not changing you have to look at if you want a man like that. someone not capable of change. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!! that is the most important thing, dont let a man take your power from you, and when you think about taking pills over a man, you have to look at how much power you are giving him over you. no matter how much you love someone, you can give them your heart, your soul, your emotions, and ALL your trust, but never let someone, anyone take your power!!!
i hate to see people like this, i hope things get better!!
thank you :) we talked and let me tell you he appologized over and over and over....and things are good now...but your right...dont let a man take your power and i think ive been letting him do that...no more! :)
I'm so sorry. It's not cool to feel that way. =( But don't do anything stupid like taking a whole mess of pills or something. He seems as if he doesn't pay much attention so its pointless really. You need to sit down and talk about all this. He needs to know how you feel and if he still doesnt care then you should just leave him. Because we all deserve a person who loves us back. It should never have to be a one way thing.
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it seems like you both need to seriously talk about this..
i'm not trying to butt in or give you advice you don't want to hear..
but if you are planning to get married to him..
it seems like things will have to change,
or else you won't ever be happy..
get some answers darling..
*hug*
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i try to get answers but he always thinks im over reacting...and half the time when we talk about stuff, itll be okay for a while then hell go back to doing things the way he always does....but yeah...weekend at his house so im ganna try to talk to him about this and dig up some very much needed answers....
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TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!! that is the most important thing, dont let a man take your power from you, and when you think about taking pills over a man, you have to look at how much power you are giving him over you.
no matter how much you love someone, you can give them your heart, your soul, your emotions, and ALL your trust, but never let someone, anyone take your power!!!
i hate to see people like this, i hope things get better!!
-much luv-
saana
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we talked and let me tell you he appologized over and over and over....and things are good now...but your right...dont let a man take your power and i think ive been letting him do that...no more! :)
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You need to sit down and talk about all this. He needs to know how you feel and if he still doesnt care then you should just leave him. Because we all deserve a person who loves us back. It should never have to be a one way thing.
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