Aug 21, 2006 14:43
Here is Alex's comprehensive guide to giving head for the amateur.
1st things 1st
The Takeout
The takeout can make or break your head giving experience.
The one hander: While rubbing sensitive parts (nipple, neck). Take opposite hand and undo the zipper and button. (side note: This one keeps them interested)
The two hander: Self explanatory, not very good, but don't be discouraged.
The no hander: Use teeth to release him. (side note: very difficult but very hott!!)
The Warmup
Teasing: kissing/licking stomach and thigh regions (side note: when teasing, do not touch the prize...make them wait!)
Gentle persuasion: using fingertips on dickhead to incite arousal. (should cause shivers)
Crazy Amazon woman!!: Skip the warmup
The Beggining
Tender loving: Start slow. A good thing to do first is to lick the tip (head). Circle the tongue around the head, this should get him a little squirmy. Slowly and gently let the head slide into your mouth. Suck slightly, letting your tongue explore the head. A good place to lick is right on the ridge, on the underside of the penis. Work the head a little (up and down, using lips and tongue on the head. When ready, let more of it enter your mouth.. This is a good time to suck a little harder. (side note: if you are new at this, your jaw may start hurting, if it does, simply stop sucking for a little while, but continue using your tongue).
Crazy Amazon woman: review the last paragraph, remove all the slowly's and gently's and replace them with quickly and forcefully. (side note: DO NOT EVER GO FORCEFULLY IF YOU HAVE A HABIT OF SCRAPING WITH TEETH...EVER!!!). Basically, go wild.
Excitement Builder
(disclaimer: not for the inexperienced or nervous type)
Deepthroating: a slow process, you must straighten out your throat and relax. Breath deeply, and go slow. The absolute worst thing to do would be to go fast and gag yourself to death. You will have to practice this one. The best way I have found to do this is to slowly slide the cock into your mouth to the point of near choking. Stop, relax, breath and go a little further. Once you go all the way down, hold it for a second and come back up. Continue this process and eventually, you will be able to go at greater speeds because you will be able to control your throat muscles.
Hand wrapping: Much better especially for the first time. Use one hand at the base of the cock. Pump up and down slowly while continuing The Beginning.
The Climax
Increase speed and pressure in whatever you chose to do. Some people like when you moan while giving head. Try it out, see their reaction. Increase tongue speed and up and down head bobbing. Suck harder.
The Warning
Those two words that everyone uses. "I'M CUMMING!!!". Not very attractive, but very useful.
You must decide beforehand, spit, swallow or you aint cummin in my mouth, nu uh!
When they say these two words, some guys will stop you from moving, it's ok. Some do not like the stimulation while cumming. There is something you can do to increase the feeling though. There is a spot, just behind the balls and in front of the ass. Apply pressure there. This will increase the velocity and amount of cum they make.
The End
If they came in your mouth, and you didn't want them to, get revenge. Snow ball kiss them. (kiss them with tongue, with their cum still in your mouth...). Some guys like this, others don't, but you won't know until you try.
I hope you enjoyed my little version of a head giving manual. I understand there is no instructions on tea bagging or anything of that sort, that's for you and your partner to play around with.
Thanks for reading my manual
happy headgiving!
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