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well, I went to the wedding and I survived.
- T's mother is crazy. She has more mood swings than I thought was possible. although I probably shouldn't call her crazy because that's derogatory. she comes from old money and she loves buying people stuff, when I got what I call "Poor person guilt" from it all she go personally offended. You have to walk on eggshells around her, it was exhausting. I stayed in a hotel with T and her mother for the night before hand, we got goofy animal hats and played air hockey.
- Catholic weddings are ridiculous. Way too long, and the whole catholic religion creeps me out slightly. It has to do with how robotic everything is, everything that the church body does is prompted by the pastor at a certain time. He says something and then they say something. If anyone has been to a catholic church you'll get what I'm having a hard time describing. It was more like brainless rituals than "worshiping" Also Her mothers brother came up to her and told her mother that she wasn't wanted there. I couldn't believe his audacity, she didn't go to the reception beause of it. The whole reason that she wasn't wanted was because she had had a divorce instead of an annulment. which states that the marriage never happenned. Which is lying. Which is against one of the 10 commandments, but whatever.
- I got so many dirty looks. Apparently the catholic religion is not fond of purple hair, several members were whispering behind my back about how they thought it was disrespectful. Look I'm not dying my hair over just for a wedding. Also because t is fond of holding hands and linking arms and stuff I got quite a few "dyke" comments made when they thought I wasn't listening. I know that t likes to be cuddly, which normally I'm all for the cuddles. she revels in doing stuff like that in public because she is sick of how people react to two girls platonically holding hands, which is a point that I can fully back, but it doesn't effect her like it does me because she shrugs it off. I do too, it's just that it hurts a little more. Also when I was trying to make pleasant conversation with one of her relatives(an elderly man) he ignored me, gave me a very dirty look, and then walked away. That hurt most of anything, because no matter how hard I try to be pleasent and polite it's like it doesn't matter.
- Now I've been making a lot of mix tapes and I'ce decided to make one about mix tapes. So if any of you guys know of any songs that have mixtape in the title or mention mix tapes then send them my way. I know of "Mix Tape" by Brand New, "Mix Tape" by Jack's mannequin, 'Mixed Tape" by butch Walker and "Song For a Mix Tape" By The Ataris.