Hitoria ja naiiii
Name: Panida
Gender: F
Gender stamp preference (female/male/doesn't matter): Male preferably but if you think one of the gals is absolutely perfect for me than it's fine
Likes: rain/thunderstorms, the moon, the 'net, anime, manga, listening to, singing, and playing music (I play the violin), videogames, mythology, animals, Tolkien, acting, theater, musicals, warm & fuzzy moments
Dislikes:
Strong points: amiable, chipper, caring, empathetic, bright, conscientious, ingenuitive, I like making people laugh but not in an "in your face" type of way, cordial, analytical, careful, clever
Weak Points: I worry a lot, I can sometimes over-think things, can be jealous, spazzy, somewhat lazy, defensive, you don't want to get on my bad side (I don't get mad very often but when I do, it's pretty formidable -- my bark is worse than my bite though), second-guessing myself, cautious, self-guarded, sense of direction haha, personal need to prove myself
~What do you look for in a boy/girlfriend?~
Personality: Someone who's self-assured (but by no means arrogant, arrogance is a trait that I absolutely hate. Him having his own little insecurities is quite lovable to me -- I'm not looking for a perfection; it gets boring ;), fun (I like a guy who's able to get goofy with me!) yet mature, that I feel secure and comfortable with, who can make me laugh even when I don't want to, someone who can make me "awwwh", that I know I can always turn to, be open with, and be mutually supportive. (ha, how corny do I sound?) Intelligence and a sense of humor are lovely. I'd like to feel protected but not on a leash. He has to be sincerely caring though, none of that fake sweetness. Bringing some more adventure into my life would be great!
Physical Appearance: Tall, toned build (not disgustingly ripped), nice shoulders, hands & jawline, endearing smile. Dimples & irish/english/scottish accent are a plus, haha. Hair color and eye color are variable as long as they're lovely on him
~Would you rather have your boy/girlfriend be:~
Calm or Energetic: Energetic but in a laid-back way if that makes sense; calm but not blah
Brains or Brawn: Brains, cleverness is sexy; no meat heads -- although he should be able to at least pick me up, haha ;)
Mature or Immature: Mature but not the excessively serious type
Controlled or Impulsive: More controlled but just impulsive enough to keep it exciting without being reckless
Confident or Modest: Confident but not arrogant so I suppose that would be both confident and modest, ehe :X
Leader or Follower: A compassionate leader over the controlling variety
Shy or Outgoing: A calm sort of outgoing aka not obnoxiously so
Honest or Secretive: I would hope that he would trust me but I'd understand if he needs to keep certain things under wraps as long as he's not deceptive or too closed
~Questions~
Would you prefer someone who acts, things, etc like you or someone different from you? Somewhere in between; having similar interests draws me to a person but I like having different ones also so we can introduce each other to new things. Personality-wise...similar enough where we don't keep butting heads but able to compliment each other with our varying traits
What would be the Turn Ons/Turn Offs to a Guy/Girl?
TURN-ONS: I think I've covered them in that "What do you look for?" and either/or portion x) This is kind of extraneous but to add something here, I love when men roll up their dress shirt sleeves to their elbows :P
TURN-OFFS: rudeness, brashness, insincerity, close-mindedness, over-confident, wussy :P
What would be one crucial trait in your ideal boy/girlfriend? Hm..security in all senses of the word, I worry enough as it is :P
What would be your ideal first date? I really don't mind as long as we can talk comfortably with each other, laugh, warm and fuzzy moments ensue, haha.
~Misc.~
Anything else?
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