Hitori Ja Nai
~You~
Name: Carita
Gender: Female
Gender stamp preference (female/male/doesn't matter): Male
Likes: Cats, animals, animanga, sleeping, daydreaming, playing flute, kendo (no undirected practice for me, please), musicals, sweets (liquorice, salmiac and chocolate) reading, spring, The Legend of Zelda and another languages and cultures.
Dislikes: Waking up early, small minded people, being bulled, dentists and needles. I also get nervous in hospitals altough I don't hate being there...
Strong points: I'm pretty open-minded. I can also be really determined if I really decide to do something. My friends say that I'm kind hearted, friendly and naive (They have said that I'm naive in a good way...).
Weak Points: I'm really insecure about myself and feel like often feel like I was laughed behind my back even if not. Because of that I'm kinda shy and reserved. I'm really bad waking up early. Usually when I get up I don't look like I was awake or then I'm snappy for next few hours. I tend to worry too much. I guess I'm afraid of breaking rules or being a disappointment for someone. I'm also tend to be pretty forgetful. I'm not physically very strong and usually go on PE classes by determination. I have a low self-esteem so I can list far more weaknesses than strengths. I'm also lazy... get home sick easily. (And I noticed it after applying to an exchange program... >__>)
~What do you look for in a boy/girlfriend?~
Personality: Caring, understanding, kind, loyal, sweet...
Physical Appearance: I guess I'm not really picky but... I like a little longish hair... It doesn't have to be really long (it can be though) but preferably not too short.
~Would you rather have your boy/girlfriend be:~
Calm or Energetic: Sometimes calm and sometimes energetic... more often calm tough.
Brains or Brawn: Brain
Mature or Immature: More mature but he could have his immature moments too.
Controlled or Impulsive: Controlled
Confident or Modest: Modest
Leader or Follower: Follower... or not too bossy leader...
Shy or Outgoing Being shy is okay... Getting know each other might be harder though but I don't mind. I guess in the between is fine not too shy but not too outgoing either...
Pessimistic or Optimistic: Well... I've noticed that I'm becoming pretty pessimistic so if he was opmistic he could cheer me up a little. But... Misery loves company... We could also be pessimstic together...
Honest or Secretive: Honest
~Questions~
Would you prefer someone who acts, things, etc like you or someone different from you? Well... I wouldn't like to have a boyfriend who was exactly like me... But I wouldn't like someone completely different either... Like... we would be alike yet not.
What would be the Turn Ons/Turn Offs to a Guy/Girl? Well turn ons are kinda same as personality and physical appearance. And I guess the offs would be total opposites... Cruelty...
What would be your ideal first date? I haven't tought it really... Spending time together... Nothing much... I not for parties...
What would be one crucial trait in your ideal boy/girlfriend? Caring
~Misc.~
Anything else? It was actually hard to answer... I felt urge to use words I guess, I think, maybe, he could, both, but, might way too often...
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