Girl update
I can't remember how I've referred to them all, but here it goes:
The girl I slept with on my birthday started seeing someone else a week later (as did I), and she flaked for the longest time, then finally let me know what was up a month later. Then she wrote me a bitter message on Friendster about how it was "petty" to remove her from my friends list, which I had done before she called and had done after she had not responded back to any kind of contact for two weeks. I wrote her a message back telling her that I'd be willing to chill again, I felt no attachments to her, and that I'd removed her in the first place because she seemed fairly unreliable and I had decided that I didn't need and friends like that. There has been no contact since.
The girl I "started over" with and I have agreed to send each other something we've written, and she's held up her end of the bargain but I haven't found anything decent yet, though I only tried looking for a couple of minutes. Anyway, I still like her, maybe more now, but yesterday we talked over AIM and she told me that she and the guy she started seeing right when the "starting over" have an exclusivity agreement, and she had just and a big drunken make out with someone else, and she was asking me what to do. There are many facets to the fuck-up-edness of the situation and her relating it to me, but I'll just say that my favorite part of the conversation was when I told her that I couldn't give a completely impartial opinion.
The girl that was going to be "a staple" I went out with for a little over a month, had lots of dirty sex, but then I think she wised up to the fact that I wasn't serious, and I think she wanted something more serious, so she's been evasive and distant and seems to just be cutting herself off from me. It's too bad, because not only was she an enthusiatic lay, but she was cool enough to be friends with. Hopefully we'll hang out again.
The girl I've been pseudo seeing (as in nothing's really happened) since the summer never called me back about plans we had last wednesday and then called me sunday. I have not called her back, though maybe I'll call soon.
The girl I'm really seeing now is a republican (girl mentioned in 11/23 post), but we get along alright. I actually met her at a friend's party and took her to my place. That night I'd gone to see the Hives with the girl I'd been seeing for a month, and we'd split to hang with different people but promised each other to meet back up and go to my place regarless of what happened that night; so obviously she did not come home with me. That was actually the last time I saw last girl. I called her later the next day and apparently she got wasted and slept at her friends place and all was well, but I wonder if she wasn't upset that I never called.
So this new girl is pretty attractive; former actress turn receptionist, though she doesn't seem like an actor. She's thinking about being a lawyer. So I cna't get any real sex from her because I've been honest and she has issue with my recent sluttiness. I think she might want to wait for two more months and an STD test before we start fucking. I don't know if that's going to fly for very much longer.
The girl I've really wanted, who slept with a now former friend over the summer because she was upset with me, has been seeing another friend and it seems to have pretty much died. She was flaky for awhile, got better again, but just disappered last night, so I'm not bothering with her for awhile. We had tentative plans to go abroad for New Year's but I'm not even going to bother looking into plane tickets until she gets more reliable.
I always wondered what I'd think of her old roommate if she hadn't been her roommate and I think I found out in a dream last night. I'd really like to fuck her. In the dream we were making out or something then she pulled back, totally naked by this point and started masturbating and wanted to watch me do the same, and was very hot about it. Right about that point the girl I'm seeing now woke me up. Dammit. The girl moved to San Diego though so I doubt anything would happen, and I'm not sure if I'd want it to since I like her friend, but she is coming to NYC for New Year's so maybe I'll say fuck it and try to hook up. We'll see.
The girl I slept with on my birthday started seeing someone else a week later (as did I), and she flaked for the longest time, then finally let me know what was up a month later. Then she wrote me a bitter message on Friendster about how it was "petty" to remove her from my friends list, which I had done before she called and had done after she had not responded back to any kind of contact for two weeks. I wrote her a message back telling her that I'd be willing to chill again, I felt no attachments to her, and that I'd removed her in the first place because she seemed fairly unreliable and I had decided that I didn't need and friends like that. There has been no contact since.
The girl I "started over" with and I have agreed to send each other something we've written, and she's held up her end of the bargain but I haven't found anything decent yet, though I only tried looking for a couple of minutes. Anyway, I still like her, maybe more now, but yesterday we talked over AIM and she told me that she and the guy she started seeing right when the "starting over" have an exclusivity agreement, and she had just and a big drunken make out with someone else, and she was asking me what to do. There are many facets to the fuck-up-edness of the situation and her relating it to me, but I'll just say that my favorite part of the conversation was when I told her that I couldn't give a completely impartial opinion.
The girl that was going to be "a staple" I went out with for a little over a month, had lots of dirty sex, but then I think she wised up to the fact that I wasn't serious, and I think she wanted something more serious, so she's been evasive and distant and seems to just be cutting herself off from me. It's too bad, because not only was she an enthusiatic lay, but she was cool enough to be friends with. Hopefully we'll hang out again.
The girl I've been pseudo seeing (as in nothing's really happened) since the summer never called me back about plans we had last wednesday and then called me sunday. I have not called her back, though maybe I'll call soon.
The girl I'm really seeing now is a republican (girl mentioned in 11/23 post), but we get along alright. I actually met her at a friend's party and took her to my place. That night I'd gone to see the Hives with the girl I'd been seeing for a month, and we'd split to hang with different people but promised each other to meet back up and go to my place regarless of what happened that night; so obviously she did not come home with me. That was actually the last time I saw last girl. I called her later the next day and apparently she got wasted and slept at her friends place and all was well, but I wonder if she wasn't upset that I never called.
So this new girl is pretty attractive; former actress turn receptionist, though she doesn't seem like an actor. She's thinking about being a lawyer. So I cna't get any real sex from her because I've been honest and she has issue with my recent sluttiness. I think she might want to wait for two more months and an STD test before we start fucking. I don't know if that's going to fly for very much longer.
The girl I've really wanted, who slept with a now former friend over the summer because she was upset with me, has been seeing another friend and it seems to have pretty much died. She was flaky for awhile, got better again, but just disappered last night, so I'm not bothering with her for awhile. We had tentative plans to go abroad for New Year's but I'm not even going to bother looking into plane tickets until she gets more reliable.
I always wondered what I'd think of her old roommate if she hadn't been her roommate and I think I found out in a dream last night. I'd really like to fuck her. In the dream we were making out or something then she pulled back, totally naked by this point and started masturbating and wanted to watch me do the same, and was very hot about it. Right about that point the girl I'm seeing now woke me up. Dammit. The girl moved to San Diego though so I doubt anything would happen, and I'm not sure if I'd want it to since I like her friend, but she is coming to NYC for New Year's so maybe I'll say fuck it and try to hook up. We'll see.