I hate being sexually active

Nov 25, 2009 02:07

I wish I had never had sex then it wouldnt be this huge deal. I hate it. I hate wanting it and desiring it. Having sex has never brought me anything good ever. It makes me obsessive and clingy. Its driven away more men from me than I can count because I want to have sex and then they dont and then I interpret that as being unattractive or ( Read more... )

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heehaw5130 November 25 2009, 08:22:51 UTC
From what I know, there are primarily two kinds of guys out there: those who don't want to have a thing to do with you, and those who want to use you.

The male half of the human species tends to be more sexual in nature than emotional. Thus, the chances of you finding a guy being geared more towards a physical nature and relationship are much higher. You also have a tendancy to be obsessive and clingy. To me (and others), it sounds like you simply move too fast in relationships. Like, as fast as the final lap in a NASCAR race. No offense or anything, of course. It just sounds like you're moving too fast. Anyway, because you just barrel-roll your way into each relationship so fast, you're not giving yourself enough time to have your relationship mature, not to mention letting yourself have a good long look at the guy who you want to go long-term with. Going into things too fast like that also tends to make guys a little nervous since everything is just so sudden for them to have this woman act like they're already *married* to them. Sudden commitment so soon tends to scare the bejeezus out of most, if not all, guys.

Slow down and take a good long look at who you want to commit a relationship to!

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