I wish I had never had sex then it wouldnt be this huge deal. I hate it. I hate wanting it and desiring it. Having sex has never brought me anything good ever. It makes me obsessive and clingy. Its driven away more men from me than I can count because I want to have sex and then they dont and then I interpret that as being unattractive or
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The male half of the human species tends to be more sexual in nature than emotional. Thus, the chances of you finding a guy being geared more towards a physical nature and relationship are much higher. You also have a tendancy to be obsessive and clingy. To me (and others), it sounds like you simply move too fast in relationships. Like, as fast as the final lap in a NASCAR race. No offense or anything, of course. It just sounds like you're moving too fast. Anyway, because you just barrel-roll your way into each relationship so fast, you're not giving yourself enough time to have your relationship mature, not to mention letting yourself have a good long look at the guy who you want to go long-term with. Going into things too fast like that also tends to make guys a little nervous since everything is just so sudden for them to have this woman act like they're already *married* to them. Sudden commitment so soon tends to scare the bejeezus out of most, if not all, guys.
Slow down and take a good long look at who you want to commit a relationship to!
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