its over
Well i went to the Parents house. I survived, now my objective is to stay away from there as long as possibe. I feel so bad for my neice, she doesn't know how to express how she is feeling. What seven year old would? so she gets snappy with Joe, and then he is the "you better listen to me father" with encouragement of course from our psyco excuse for a father. so Brianna crys for her mommy that she doesn't even know is in GA, cause her mommy didnt even care enough to tell her, cause god for bid than Brianna would want to be with her mom and her mom is too damn selfish. I told the phycho dad on the way home that Brianna needs understanding. He says Joe doesnt disipline them enough, i told him you know what i know? I know that she is 7, her mom and dad are divorcing and that she can't express how she feels. so in stead she gets angry, and joe is hurting and in stead of letting himself feel that, he gets angry. thats what i know.
The phycho dad says well they go through the same thing every time he tells them to brush their teeth and go to bed, he say he is not mad at Brianna he is mad at Joe. I asked him why does he have to be mad at anyone? they are both hurting. I said, wouldnt it be better if he told the kids "ok, if you guys get ready for bed when i tell you, without arguing, i will bring you a special reward tomorrow when i come home" I said isnt that better then yelling and fighting, they are children.
he said I was right (shock)
it tore my heart out when she was crying for her mommy, i wanted to go hug her tight and tell her that everythings going to be ok.
Joe needs to have someone else watch her on friday cause the parents are going to HOMO so i told joe to bring her to my house i will take her out and have fun. I am going to give her my number and tell her to call me any time she wants.
ppl dont understand what a blessing they are given when they have children, i know lots of ppl do, and i know there are lots of good moms and dads, it just breaks my heart that i couldnt be one of them
going to sleep now i hope
Barb
The phycho dad says well they go through the same thing every time he tells them to brush their teeth and go to bed, he say he is not mad at Brianna he is mad at Joe. I asked him why does he have to be mad at anyone? they are both hurting. I said, wouldnt it be better if he told the kids "ok, if you guys get ready for bed when i tell you, without arguing, i will bring you a special reward tomorrow when i come home" I said isnt that better then yelling and fighting, they are children.
he said I was right (shock)
it tore my heart out when she was crying for her mommy, i wanted to go hug her tight and tell her that everythings going to be ok.
Joe needs to have someone else watch her on friday cause the parents are going to HOMO so i told joe to bring her to my house i will take her out and have fun. I am going to give her my number and tell her to call me any time she wants.
ppl dont understand what a blessing they are given when they have children, i know lots of ppl do, and i know there are lots of good moms and dads, it just breaks my heart that i couldnt be one of them
going to sleep now i hope
Barb