My Wife.
So yeah, I have a wife aka my best friend. I love her to death but sometimes she lets her emotions get the better of her. She turns in to someone I don't even know. I can't explain why but I wish it didn't happen as frequently as it has been recently. Seriously it happens ever other week. You would think that since she is leaving so soon that she would rather spend her time trying to have a good time instead of getting upset over stupid things like things that happen when you're drunk at Summerfest. My side of the story may differ from hers but I guess I don't see what was so wrong about what I did/didn't do. We went to summerfest to see Say Anything but our luck, they canceled so we went to watch Reo speedwagon which turned out to be a good time. During there concert was the first time I noticed that she was becoming bitchy. Right after I asked her about the texts from this player of a guy. She told me about them and then I just told her what he had told me the night before about wanting to kiss me the entire or night. So then her mood changed a bit. But I just figured it was nothing cause she had told me that she didn't care about him and I kissing. Then we met up with my cousins b/f and his buddy for a bit. No problems there. Then we went to look for a friend that was also watching Reo speedwagon but couldn't find her so we started to move away from the concert when I saw the DILF that I know. He told us to come back to Reo speedwagon for the rest of the concert so I asked my cousin & the wife if they minded going back, they both said no so we went. Then after the concert we went to find a bathroom for the DILF then all of a sudden the wife was in a hurry to get to the Violent Femmes which weren't playing for another hour, so she started to walk away from us after I asked her what was wrong and she told me NOTHING in a really irritated tone, and my cousin followed. I was about to but then the DILF said he was going with us so I waited for him instead of trying to find the wife and the cousin in the crowd, didn't want to walk around by myself. So then the DILF and I walked around, caught some of the Violent Femmes then I left him to meet up with the group I came with and saw the last minutes of the concert with them. So the whole way home she doesn't say one word to me. We get back to my house, she walks in, grabs her things and while I am holding the door open walks out in a angry rush past me without saying anything. Then later my sister tells me that my wife was upset with me because I walked away from her?!?!?!?!? Seriously children if we are going to have some issues with our spouses then why not tell them what the problem is before we go off and pout!!! All of these times that she has been mad at me I just let her deal with it. Until she tells me what is wrong I can't do anything about it. I can't apologize to her because I don't have any idea what it wrong. Stop letting your PMS run your life seriously. This happens normally a week before she gets her period. Honestly I don't want to put up with this but it isn't like I have any control over it unless I just stop being friends with her. I don't know anymore. I am really not interested in why she does this every month to me I just want it to stop. I try my hardest to not step on her toes. She wants me to do her hair, I do it. She wants me to stay at home while she goes out with some guy from work, I do it. She wants me to go with her to see a band I am not into, I do it. Man I try so hard and I know that I am not perfect and I probably do get on her nerves occasionally but that street goes both ways. The only difference is that I have the nerve to tell her when she is pissing me off or what is pissing me off. I don't do that whole NOTHING IS WRONG thing and then get all pissed when I don't come to her to fix the problem. I left that drama in high school and the majority of my friends see where I am coming from when they hear about this. They realize that her emotions get out of control and she has a bad way of letting them out. She would rather get mad then to handle it healthy. Ha...well whatever no matter what happens between her and I, I am enjoying life and living it to the fullest. I'm not worried about the drama. I'm just having a GOOD TIME!!!!