2010 defriending of doom

[bigmamag]

I just completed the most massive defriending I have ever conducted. 52 50 defriendings. Holy fuckballs. Yeah I just up and decided to get over being nostalgic or keeping journals in hopes that the owner will update. If you were defriended, the reasons were not personal. Here's the criteria I defriended by:

1) You haven't updated in months
2) You

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[being_elspeth]

) You haven't updated in months
2) You haven't updated in months AND the last update was sort of lame/an oasis in the middle of a desert of non-activity
3) We have absolutely no fandoms in common anymore and haven't talked in months (some of these defriendings physically pained me)
4) I have no idea who you are and you probably friended me for update reasons anyway
5) You are a rec journal/music journal1) You haven't updated in months
2) You haven't updated in months AND the last update was sort of lame/an oasis in the middle of a desert of non-activity
3) We have absolutely no fandoms in common anymore and haven't talked in months (some of these defriendings physically pained me)
4) I have no idea who you are and you probably friended me for update reasons anyway
5) You are a rec journal/music journalWow...Um I have no idea where that puts me in your criteria. Can I be added back

[bigmamag]

I had no idea you would mind so much! I added you back, no problem. See, I thought you wouldn't mind since your journal is pretty much rl updates and mine is pretty much strictly fandom. But since you do mind, I have no problem welcoming you back and yes, you totally did comment and was nice to me recently and I responded by being a douchebag. :/ So sorry, dear.

[vipersunjoy]

I use my journal for link's storage so i don't post anything public. I comment rarely b/c when there's written smth i totally agree with and have nothing to add, i feel stupid to leave comment smth like 'yeah i totally agree'. so if i don't comment it doesn't mean i don't care or anything, if i add person to my flist, this means i'm really going to read her or his lj.
I'm ok with ppl not reading my lj for there's actually nothing interesting and that being the reason for not adding me back but if you're going to make friends only entries, pls add me.

[bigmamag]

See that's why I defriended, because I didn't really recognize you and your journal. I'll friend you back, no problem, since I do make friends-only entries that contain a lot of meta and stuff, but I really would like to get to know you more. ;)

[vipersunjoy]

Thanks! i'll try to behave xD

[bigmamag]

You will do nothing of the sort. Only naughty behavior around these parts, missy.

[quarterwhore]

*breathes sigh of relief*

[bigmamag]

Baby, you got no sigh of relief to be breathing. You are not only one of those friends who have been there forever, but we STILL have fandoms in common and chat a lot. You should be entitled and all THAT'S RIGHT ALL YOU OTHER BITCHES, I'M THE QUEEN BITCH HERE.

[daphnie_1]

*CLINGS. CLINGS FOREVER*

(ignore me XD This is just my random way of saying I HEART YOU &hearts AND YOU WILL NEVER BE FREE OF MY NEVER ~)

It always scares me how many fandoms we actually share xD

[bigmamag]

Aw hale naw, you're on my top 10 list of favorite friends. If I actually had a top 10 list. Which would probably be a top 25 because I've got quite a few who are about equal in the 'I will haunt you forever if you leave me' department. /creepiness

And I know right? To think I just friended you based on Star Trek and always seeing you around, and then bam, like minds. :D

[bigmamag]

Thanks for the kind words. :) It really is hard because I'm never sure if I'm doing the right thing and it's just crazy doing it en masse like this.