Hello there!
Well, the centerpoint of my current life is that on Monday, March 15th, my Year of Waiting will be over.
Funny thing, I've waited so eagerly for this moment, and now that it approaches, it's really rather scary.
I've been married to R. since 1991. The idea of being single again is... well, it's a big change. And it's also terribly sad that even though I told him in November 2002 that I needed to Separate, we haven't actually done any *work* on the relationship.
Not surprising. I told him in 1993 that I thought we'd made a mistake in marrying. When our son was a baby, we had, what? 3 sessions with a counselor? Those were useless.
I won't put all the blame on R.
But I'd love to know what I could have done differently.
Funny thing, I've waited so eagerly for this moment, and now that it approaches, it's really rather scary.
I've been married to R. since 1991. The idea of being single again is... well, it's a big change. And it's also terribly sad that even though I told him in November 2002 that I needed to Separate, we haven't actually done any *work* on the relationship.
Not surprising. I told him in 1993 that I thought we'd made a mistake in marrying. When our son was a baby, we had, what? 3 sessions with a counselor? Those were useless.
I won't put all the blame on R.
But I'd love to know what I could have done differently.