A man is not a man if he doesn't take care of his family
i love that quote fro "godfather". it's so true and it works so well right now.
for those who read this journal knows that i'm babysitting these three kids while the parents are working out some divorce issues. the mother works nights and i'm looking after them while their parents are gone. the father... well let's just say he is "not a man"
i'm quite emotional right now and angry and annoyed. how can there be such scum in this world? of course, there are much worse scum [i.e. child rapists] but then again, he's sleeping with someone barely older than me and completely ignoring his children causing them severe emotional prolems so he's not that much better.
the mom called today to say that i don't have to babysit tonight. their father is babysittting them. it's weird, but ever since my last post where i scold the dad for not being a more attentive father, he's been watching the kids more often. it's good but since the herm, i've been a little paranoid and wonders if somehow his lawyers found my LJ.
well my mom and the mom are talking on speakerphone now. i hear all. it's just getting ridiculous. he's finally admitted to the affair and that he's still with her, and he asks "so what?" - ???!!!!!! seiously no words to describe what kind of filth he is - . ok, first of all, if you're seperated like that, you should just leave the house and stay with your mistress during these divorce proceedings. but no, he won't leave until the papers are finalized. he comes home at two three in the morn, sleeps in the guest room and then leaves first thing in the morn. your house is not a hotel. his wife still has to clean up after him. the feminist in me is screaming "oh hells no"
and now that they've both got lawyers involved, the mom doesn't want it to be dragged out cuz his lawyers charge $250/hour and her lawyers charge $200/hour [no wonder my parents are happy i wanted to learn law... is it bad that i don't want to be a lawyer for very long tho? i just want to have thorough knowledge of the law... i like to learn and spew random facts out... i kno i'm weird]
so the mom doesn't want the lawyers basically draining them dry. the husband is completely out of it and says how can it be that much money spent over this. do the math, DUMASS!!!! so now she's like let's do this quickly. i'll buy you out of the restaurant and give you some money to start off on your own. he's not even really going to pay for alimony. she's gonna raise three kids on her own!!!!! SLIME!!!
he wants a large amount, but she's like i can't give that to you. i still have three kids to raise and their college and future to think about. so she gave him a lower price [she's adding in the stock and bonds and real estate and dividing it in half... i think that's more than enough for a "bachelor" to start off on]. but he's like no still. he's raising his voice and his fist. we fear he might start hitting her if it escalades. the mom says she can't sleep at night and he's mentally torturing her. seriously, now i'd call the cops just for the mental abuse.
seriously, no wonder the kids don't want to be with you. they'd rather hang out with a stranger [well i'm not really stranger... outsider more like] than with their dad. FAIL! total and utter FAIL. you know what the daughter said to me once? "i'd rather you stay and daddy to leave". i had my god-sis growing up babysitting me for a time while my parents were in taiwan for business. as much as i like the freedom away from my parents during that time, i would always prefer my parents aorund.
he fails as a parent. he fails as a husband.
he told me the last time we met that i can ask him any question and he'd answer truthfully. i seriously want to ask him "are you a man? cuz in accordance to "the godfather" and from my own judgement, not only are you not a man, you're not even "beast" [it's a chinese thing where we call someone terrible "not even a beast"... sorta like animals are better and more civilized and more compationate than you. basically you're worse than scum]. i'd seriously say it, but i'm kinda afraid he'd hit me. he already raised his fist to his wife. how hard is it to hit an outsider?
SCUM