Brett has always had low energy. He doesn't get enough sleep at night, and around 9-10 in the evening, he's usually on his way to zonking out on the couch or the floor. He's been like that for years. I just nudge when the snoring gets too loud. I used to tell him maybe he should get some exercise, try to build up his energy level, but of course he ( Read more... )

My boyfriend just keeps getting dimmer. Because I work late on Thursday, which was my birthday, we had planned to do something on Saturday. The plan was to go to Cafe Bizou, a very nice place, and one of my fave restaurants which we haven't been to in about 2 years. I had asked to go there for my birthday dinner, because, when it comes right down ( Read more... )

Well, I still have a boyfriend. I got an apology, too, but it's not so much that I forgave him as it was me not really caring to sustain the anger. It's not worth it. Besides, I'm a fairly unforgiving person. There are things I can set aside to keep things smooth, but I rarely forgive. I didn't forgive him. Why forgive someone when they knew what ( Read more... )

Well, what to say, what to say. The BF managed to make me angry last week. Super short version, he tried to blame me for something that not only isn't my fault, but which wasn't even true. This is nothing new. He has made decisions over the years that haven't gone well for him, and he constantly tries to lay blame on someone or something else. In ( Read more... )

But you can't tell by going outside. It's cloudy in the morning (June gloom in July) and in the low 80s in the afternoon. The only indication so far to say it's summer is the allergy attack that's kicking my ass right now ( Read more... )

I'm getting testy with my boyfriend. I suppose I should preface this by saying Brett is a shitty housekeeper. Things in his apartment get cleaned under 3 conditions ( Read more... )

Maybe I nitpick this too much, but there are times when I think my boyfriend likes taking little digs at me. Before, when he was bankrupting himself by running up massive credit card debt, he tried to lay it on me because he took me out to dinner once a week. Hello, I wasn't the one who reached into his pocket, grabbed his wallet and whipped out an ( Read more... )