Apr 05, 2008 01:28
I'M BACK!!
There's only one thing better than being single: being in a relationship, and then being single again. After coming out of a relationship, you feel a sense of freedom. You feel as though you've been tied down forever, and now you can finally do anything you want. There's no shame in being single, especially if you have a healthy relationship with yourself. I'm not saying that you should date yourself, because that could make you sound a little crazy. But if you're able to feel comfortable doing things alone and treating yourself well, then I can almost guarantee that you'll be happier. There is absolutely no need to feel lonely if you're capable of being alone. You still have your friends and family to hang out with when you need to spend time with other people, so why do you need to be in a relationship. In my experience, I actually prefer to be single. I'm not saying that I haven't had my share of relationships, because I have; I'm just saying that I am capable of doing things on my own. If you can go somewhere and eat by yourself, go to a movie by yourself, or even go shopping by yourself; you don't need anybody else. Take some time to think about that, don't sit and feel sorry for yourself because you're not with someone. Go out and do something, even if you're flying solo. You can do anything you want, without a second opinion! You can even treat yourself to a little something extra; buy yourself a gift! Being single is much better than people think; it's actually quite FABULOUS!
For now,
<3XOXO
-Bengee
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