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1) My age and location: 34, Atlanta, GA 2) My self-labels: queer, non-monogamous, trans, genderfree, fat-n-proud, social justice activist, artist, demisexual, expressive, anti-colonizing spiritual pagan Quaker. 3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: introspective reflections on my experiences and relationships; skill-shares about consent, intimacy, and ADHD; discussions of social justice. there are a lot of other things I write about but they're all very sporadic. 4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: detailed self-examinations. I like social justice too but I have plenty of other sources for it -- here I NEED real intimacy, vulnerable sharing and efforts for growth. 5) My friendship dealbreakers are: slurs, fat-phobia, cis-centrism, selfishness when it gets to the level of damaging others. 6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 4 days, when I'm my usual self 7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics:
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Hi! I saw this entry on the livejournal home page, explored your journal a little, and added you because I enjoyed reading what little of your writing I've read so far, and think you have a unique perspective.
I might come back and do this quiz to try and find some more friends, but I'm still thinking on the "self-labels" question. I present and mostly interact with the world as straight/cis-female, but hopefully I don't come off as too cis-centric (I'd love to know when/if I do), but wouldn't really label myself that way...
Anyway, I won't be hurt if you aren't interested in my journal, but just wanted to let you know that I'm reading yours!
welcome and well-met! Thanks for adding me! I looked at your recent posts and thought that your writing is just my style, so I'm happy to add you back!
I'm in the UK and would be interested in being LJ friends as you seem a deeper thinker type like me :-) If from my profile write up, you think we might get along, feel free to add with me.
1) My age and location: 36 (as of this week. I almost forgot and put 35 lol!) 2) My self-labels: biromantic, asexual, schizoaffective, SCAdian, archer, golfer, swimmer, writer, hockey fan, football fan, volunteer, photographer, animal lover, Jew 3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Real life day to day stuff, with some weekly things like reading wednesday and music monday. 4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: real life day to day stuff. 5) My friendship dealbreakers are: racism, bigotry, homophobia, supporting Trump 6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: day 7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: history (especially ww2, ussr, and latin america), religion, judaism, geography, psychology, 8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: I would want people to include me more.
1) My age and location: 38 in Germany (as well as elsewhere) 2) My self-labels: no labels please 3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: every day life; trips & outings; most entries include photos 4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: about your life and thoughts! 5) My friendship dealbreakers are: disrespect 6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 3 days 7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: that's something I haven't thought about and I won't start now 8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: leaving me more space, thanks
Re: friendzy fun!webgirlukOctober 9 2017, 18:57:33 UTC
I love your reply to the last question and you seem interesting. Take a look at my profile and if you think you might enjoy being LJ friends, feel free to add me :-)
2) My self-labels: Not really sure what this means.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories:
- Meta. To elaborate, this includes reaction posts/reviews, thoughts on media tropes, and some fandom-specific things. (If you find any mention of fandom grating, I may not be the friend for you.)
- Satire/snarky social commentary (usually social media, but not always).
- Deeper life musings.
- Writing and other artsy stuff.
- Real life, but... I'm not one to recall everything I did today. My RL entries are either things I need to vent about, things I need to squee about, or more anecdotal.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: It honestly depends more on the person, I think. I will say I definitely like having friends who talk about the sort of things I mentioned above.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: The usual suspects, really - racism, homophobia, etc. Additionally, I find it hard to connect with people who only post bullet points.
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2) My self-labels: queer, non-monogamous, trans, genderfree, fat-n-proud, social justice activist, artist, demisexual, expressive, anti-colonizing spiritual pagan Quaker.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: introspective reflections on my experiences and relationships; skill-shares about consent, intimacy, and ADHD; discussions of social justice. there are a lot of other things I write about but they're all very sporadic.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: detailed self-examinations. I like social justice too but I have plenty of other sources for it -- here I NEED real intimacy, vulnerable sharing and efforts for growth.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: slurs, fat-phobia, cis-centrism, selfishness when it gets to the level of damaging others.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 4 days, when I'm my usual self
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: ( ... )
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I might come back and do this quiz to try and find some more friends, but I'm still thinking on the "self-labels" question. I present and mostly interact with the world as straight/cis-female, but hopefully I don't come off as too cis-centric (I'd love to know when/if I do), but wouldn't really label myself that way...
Anyway, I won't be hurt if you aren't interested in my journal, but just wanted to let you know that I'm reading yours!
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2) My self-labels: biromantic, asexual, schizoaffective, SCAdian, archer, golfer, swimmer, writer, hockey fan, football fan, volunteer, photographer, animal lover, Jew
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Real life day to day stuff, with some weekly things like reading wednesday and music monday.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: real life day to day stuff.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: racism, bigotry, homophobia, supporting Trump
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: day
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: history (especially ww2, ussr, and latin america), religion, judaism, geography, psychology,
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: I would want people to include me more.
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2) My self-labels: no labels please
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: every day life; trips & outings; most entries include photos
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: about your life and thoughts!
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: disrespect
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 3 days
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: that's something I haven't thought about and I won't start now
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: leaving me more space, thanks
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It sounds like we'd get along - 37 in London and posts about my life with photos. Friends?
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2) My self-labels: Not really sure what this means.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories:
- Meta. To elaborate, this includes reaction posts/reviews, thoughts on media tropes, and some fandom-specific things. (If you find any mention of fandom grating, I may not be the friend for you.)
- Satire/snarky social commentary (usually social media, but not always).
- Deeper life musings.
- Writing and other artsy stuff.
- Real life, but... I'm not one to recall everything I did today. My RL entries are either things I need to vent about, things I need to squee about, or more anecdotal.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: It honestly depends more on the person, I think. I will say I definitely like having friends who talk about the sort of things I mentioned above.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: The usual suspects, really - racism, homophobia, etc. Additionally, I find it hard to connect with people who only post bullet points.
6) I post entries ( ... )
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