8 answers to find your new best LJ friend

Oct 04, 2017 13:38


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belenen October 4 2017, 17:49:51 UTC
1) My age and location: 34, Atlanta, GA
2) My self-labels: queer, non-monogamous, trans, genderfree, fat-n-proud, social justice activist, artist, demisexual, expressive, anti-colonizing spiritual pagan Quaker.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: introspective reflections on my experiences and relationships; skill-shares about consent, intimacy, and ADHD; discussions of social justice. there are a lot of other things I write about but they're all very sporadic.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: detailed self-examinations. I like social justice too but I have plenty of other sources for it -- here I NEED real intimacy, vulnerable sharing and efforts for growth.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: slurs, fat-phobia, cis-centrism, selfishness when it gets to the level of damaging others.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 4 days, when I'm my usual self
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: oppression, inclusion, intimacy, consent, gender, spirituality, christianity
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: nobody notices when I'm naked, so I can always get away with no clothes if I want. I hate having to wear clothes, especially when it is hot.

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lostincandyrain October 4 2017, 22:03:47 UTC
Hi! I saw this entry on the livejournal home page, explored your journal a little, and added you because I enjoyed reading what little of your writing I've read so far, and think you have a unique perspective.

I might come back and do this quiz to try and find some more friends, but I'm still thinking on the "self-labels" question. I present and mostly interact with the world as straight/cis-female, but hopefully I don't come off as too cis-centric (I'd love to know when/if I do), but wouldn't really label myself that way...

Anyway, I won't be hurt if you aren't interested in my journal, but just wanted to let you know that I'm reading yours!

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belenen October 6 2017, 03:32:25 UTC
welcome and well-met! Thanks for adding me! I looked at your recent posts and thought that your writing is just my style, so I'm happy to add you back!

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brittdreams October 8 2017, 21:03:40 UTC
I'm gonna go ahead and add you because you seem pretty cool. Feel free to take a look at my journal.

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